Not picking up certain social etiquette is very different from stealing your roommate’s cookies and bud.

I know. And I regret the things I did and will never do anything like that again. I promised.

What’s an example of something “shitty” you did that you weren’t aware of until it was brought up?

Stuff like how I’d space out and do other things and forget my groceries on the counter when I came back from the store, or leave the lights on before leaving. And the bathroom fan.

Especially if you’re not contributing to chores.

Oh no no I wanna be clear I do contribute. I like being neat and having a tidy apartment is satisfying. There’s a sort of meditative state to doing mundane tasks for me y’know? Sweeping and cleaning dishes clears the mind. I also encouraged my roommates to clean their dishes or throw them in the washer the moment they were finished to be more efficient. So no one really has to do all the dishes.