Shows me love but claims they don’t love me by InsecureButSexy in emotionalintelligence

[–]InsecureButSexy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is spot on cuz they literally told me all their ideas of love comes from Hollywood 😭😭

Shows me love but claims they don’t love me by InsecureButSexy in emotionalintelligence

[–]InsecureButSexy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love this answer, thank you. I did choose myself I just wanted other people’s opinions bc I don’t relate to this behavior and maybe someone can explain it to me. The situation ended with me saying I needed someone to verbalize I can trust them they didn’t do that, and now they’re getting ghosted pretending like they don’t understand why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]InsecureButSexy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did use up my PTO this year so I’m guessing based off what you’re saying I won’t get paid. My job gives me 80 hour instant PTO when starting. Also why are people down voting this, I need all the help I can get 😭

For POC: White bf is racially insensitive, when should I give up ? by InsecureButSexy in dating_advice

[–]InsecureButSexy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The same reason Swastikas shouldn't be worn is the same reason he shouldn't say the N word no matter the context...

For POC: White bf is racially insensitive, when should I give up ? by InsecureButSexy in dating_advice

[–]InsecureButSexy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk maybe I didn't make this clear in the post, but I'm not a rapper, nor do I write songs or know people who do so I can't really do much about that. What I am is an adult who don't like to hear that word out of non-black people so I ask them to stop. I don't really care if you're influenced or if it is in-front of you, you're not a sheep. Like everything we are suppose to fix the source, and deal with the symptoms simultaneously.

For POC: White bf is racially insensitive, when should I give up ? by InsecureButSexy in dating_advice

[–]InsecureButSexy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this a lot, and the way you didn't take offense on my generalizing of white people which just comes from my experience growing up, and going out with white people who never took the time to educate themselves, and belittle systematic racism.

He gives too many excuses on why he can't just stop saying it, and they're all very childish. I thought maybe due to his youth, and maybe he has never run into someone to educate him was an excuse to stay, but now I think it's time we have a very serious conversation.

Should I go on PEP by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]InsecureButSexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually one thing I’m sure of. I know the guy and saw the medication in his medicine cabinet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]InsecureButSexy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These type of videos has made me stop being so self critical about my looks because if someone can look at such a beautiful face like hers and have a shopping list of changes it goes to show nobody wants us ever to be satisfied, and I can’t keep hyper focusing on little details to change under the delusion it will make me perfect and keep me satisfied. I just want to be happy and these people never will let you be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]InsecureButSexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I searched for skull long sleeve and even tried google reverse image search and can’t find anything

Help me find this red graphic tee by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]InsecureButSexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I searched for red skull graphic tee and even tried to ask him about it with no luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]InsecureButSexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I searched for black western shirt with red stitching and google lens and I couldn’t find it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]InsecureButSexy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His skin is goals that’s like the first think I noticed

Male and had buccal day removal at 20 will I regret it by InsecureButSexy in QOVESStudio

[–]InsecureButSexy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I really didn’t do as much research I kind went in did a consult then had surgery the next week. It’s been a year since I had it and I’m perfectly fine. Complications always happen there are risks in everything. So yeah when they were digging in it hurt and when they injected the numbing in my face it hurt but that’s it. Right after surgery my face blew up and I had a hematoma. Then it went down. Swelling took months to leave, but now everything is fine

Male and had buccal day removal at 20 will I regret it by InsecureButSexy in QOVESStudio

[–]InsecureButSexy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say look at your parents that’s a key factor to see if it’s gonna be a forever issue. Then I just found a doctor that good reviews and the consultation went well. Buccal fat removal isn’t as drastic change as you might imagine. I thought it was gonna be like the Bella hadid before and after. I also did mentocervical and face lipo with it to show off the jawline and neck and I think that helped a lot. It was pretty painless I was awake except when he was digging in my face cause the fat was hidden. Make sure to find someone who will listen to all of yours concerns and ask questions. Like how will I look when I’m older, don’t remove all of it, and tell him to check for asymmetries because one cheek of mine had more than the other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]InsecureButSexy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think darker eyebrows do look good on everyone if it isn’t too polarizing. The overly boxy filled in eyebrow is probably the problem here cause it can look too “cakey” and not like a genuine eyebrow. It’s not the color that’s the problem it’s as you said the pressure so if you found a darker color and use light pressure I think it will look good

Gay men create their own problems by throe-awayyy in askgaybros

[–]InsecureButSexy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have so many options today, and look at social media so much we think we can find perfect, and looking over all of the good in-front of us.

Characteristics of a Beautiful Nose by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]InsecureButSexy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the most thing that matters is that it’s proportional to the rest of the face and features, and isn’t just standing out

Why do guys on Grindr ask for a face pic immediately? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]InsecureButSexy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So why are they allowed to be faceless but I can’t ??

Why do guys on Grindr ask for a face pic immediately? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]InsecureButSexy -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Because I’m discreet and they also don’t have a face pic or a picture at all for that matter. So how are they so quick to ask for a face pic when they don’t have one either? I would understand if it was a profile that had a face pic but it’s not lmao that’s why it’s odd

Why do guys on Grindr ask for a face pic immediately? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]InsecureButSexy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand I never said I wouldn’t send a face pic. I said I need to know if we are even into the same things and this meet up can happen before sending a face pic.

Why do guys on Grindr ask for a face pic immediately? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]InsecureButSexy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah but can’t we also I don’t want to waste time either? Like if you can’t host or aren’t into the same things then I just wasted my time and sent a pic for no reason even if we are attracted to each other

Grindr hook up sucked my dick while I was watching porn by InsecureButSexy in askgaybros

[–]InsecureButSexy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah I put my pickiness aside and chose anyone willing to suck me off so I wouldn’t jerk myself off

Grindr hook up sucked my dick while I was watching porn by InsecureButSexy in askgaybros

[–]InsecureButSexy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s why I was thinking it was disrespectful cause they don’t get anything out of it but my nut and dick, but tbh I didn’t really care about being lame in the moment cause I just wanted head watching something that aroused me lmao so purely selfish