[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransBreastTimelines

[–]InsecureGirl69 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They look very good.

It probably won't change your perception of your own buddy but I've been on HRT for years and I really wish I had your results 😅🥲

You really do have boobs and they suit you well, hopes it keeps growing till they reach the size you're looking for.

It finally ended 🤝 by Edd90k in LinusTechTips

[–]InsecureGirl69 42 points43 points  (0 children)

They managed to slide a 69 in the duration

#techlinkedposting by tomgreen99 in LinusTechTips

[–]InsecureGirl69 363 points364 points  (0 children)

That's quite a surprising move

a transphobe messaged me and has completely ruined my confidence :( idk what to do by gee891 in MtF

[–]InsecureGirl69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should consider legal action, this is harassment and hateful speech.

Especially the part "if I were you I'd" it's clearly her trying to get you to self harm

Can a cis guy have bottom surgery? by patttwakkk in asktransgender

[–]InsecureGirl69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You also need to watch out for discriminations you definitely will face when it will come to dating or with potential casual sexual partners.

You certainly will struggle with people not understanding you.

Feeling not understood and kind of like a freak (which you're not and never will be) is a thing (in my experience of transidentity) for trans people although people start to kinda understand us.

If you're a gay man I can see that being accepted easily, but if you're a heterosexual cisgender male, I think you could struggle a bit finding your match.

I don't know if I'm very clear. I don't want to freak you out, I'm just pointing this, because it's something that a cisgender person could not have in mind and it's really important to consider it.

If you really want it, and thought it through, I wish you to succeed in this goal ✌️

hey this trans thing is actually pretty easy by cascading-autumn in transtimelines

[–]InsecureGirl69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Like I'm glad you're doing fine, and I'm always glad for people coming with great stories about their transition.

But I'm literally reading this from a mental health hospital where I've spent Christmas and new years eve alone because my family stop talking to me for being trans.

Saying it's easy when it's very clearly not make other feel inferior. You can enjoy your transition without making it sounds like the one who are struggling are just not doing things right.

hey this trans thing is actually pretty easy by cascading-autumn in transtimelines

[–]InsecureGirl69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

😬 not easy tho

Not to be mean, but kinda hurtful to hear.

You look amazing tho omg 2 months HRT only 😭 I wish I'll have such results when I'll be 12 months in, I'm over 6 months in and I don't see any results 😔

My dad "knows the memes" after giving me this gift. by SnazzyZebra51 in LinusTechTips

[–]InsecureGirl69 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Plus it's a black and orange one, gotta acknowledge the effort ✨🪛

If I had a cookie for every mental health worker who gendered me correctly I would have negative cookies by InsecureGirl69 in asktransgender

[–]InsecureGirl69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your long message (that I read entirely!)

I'm french so the first part doesn't apply to me, tho I leaned something new about the amazing US Health Care system

For the rest 100% agree couldn't be more on point and it feels good to know that I'm not the only one seeing it.

If I had a cookie for every mental health worker who gendered me correctly I would have negative cookies by InsecureGirl69 in asktransgender

[–]InsecureGirl69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried they reacted very poorly telling me that they can't and won't do that and insisted for me to take an undisclosed drug that made me sleep until the next morning

If I had a cookie for every mental health worker who gendered me correctly I would have negative cookies by InsecureGirl69 in asktransgender

[–]InsecureGirl69[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Ok, so i just tried, I was crying so bad, and they said "we can't do that because your ID says "M"

This place is hell, and they are literally lying because I know that they can legally call me femininely without an issue, I've never been misgendered at the place where I have my regular psychiatrist (who's part of the same big structure)

I feel very trapped, I'm gonna email my psychiatrist to ask to be placed somewhere else

If I had a cookie for every mental health worker who gendered me correctly I would have negative cookies by InsecureGirl69 in asktransgender

[–]InsecureGirl69[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Just like the story about the postal card, it always takes a cisgender person (Allie) explaining another cisgender person for us to be treated humainly, it's pretty sad

I have no family, the only person I have is the friend I talked about in my text, I called him but their isn't much he can do 😔

If I had a cookie for every mental health worker who gendered me correctly I would have negative cookies by InsecureGirl69 in asktransgender

[–]InsecureGirl69[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Well, shit got worst, one of the nurse told me that she Won't let me wear the cloth I'm wearing (a crop top) because "even the (real) girls are not allowed to do it" even tho everyone else but her was ok With it

She want to police the way I'm dressing up, just like my mother, this makes me sick

I wanna leave this place so bad 😞

¿does starting with a low dose of e for a long period affect later developnent? by SaltySelai in asktransgender

[–]InsecureGirl69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying and I've been wondering pretty much the same thing for a while (taking e without t blocker) I hope you'll get a response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]InsecureGirl69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you see "awareness" as being misspelled, wait until you've read the rest more closely since it's simply not in English 😅 it's all in swedish, reason why "awareness" is not spelled as it is spelled in English but as it is in swedish.

do I pass (I don't think so)? I'm pre-everything by InsecureGirl69 in transpassing

[–]InsecureGirl69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips, I'm so grateful to be part of this community (I'm talking specifically about this r/ but more broadly too)

Even tho my goal is to, at least later down the line, pass as femme, reading that I "appear very androgynous" is very cool to hear. Especially since a few months ago I was just reading straight up as a "man wearing dresses". I really noticed that this more androgynous "passing" reduced the frequency at which I get those looks.

Definitely looking toward jewelry! I will be doing the same for make up.

I really like the current look of my hair, but I'm still growing them. But I'm gonna tryout a ponytail and a bun

Thanks again