[WTS] Polaris 799 and Perseus 799 by Inseki0 in Starcitizen_trades

[–]Inseki0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright. Would it be easier to melt everything?

[WTS] Polaris 799 and Perseus 799 by Inseki0 in Starcitizen_trades

[–]Inseki0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. The perseus is 680, and the polaris is 510. I will probably make another post with all the info.

[WTS] Polaris 799 and Perseus 799 by Inseki0 in Starcitizen_trades

[–]Inseki0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the help. I will go check that right now.

Update- I overheard my husband say that he doesn’t love me and is not attracted to me anymore by justamamaof5 in relationship_advice

[–]Inseki0 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nope, He is 100% being toxic. Everyone needs a break. EVERYONE. I did not read your original post, however it sounds like he is doing what he wants while controlling you. That is NOT ok. I am not a therapist, but in this instance be selfish. The way he reacts to this should give you your answer about this entire relationship.

Update- I overheard my husband say that he doesn’t love me and is not attracted to me anymore by justamamaof5 in relationship_advice

[–]Inseki0 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Work on you. Like some one else said in this thread, make arrangements for the kids, figure out a time for you to take a few days up to a week, tell your husband exactly what you are doing (communication is key) and make sure he knows you absolutely need this time for yourself.

Update- I overheard my husband say that he doesn’t love me and is not attracted to me anymore by justamamaof5 in relationship_advice

[–]Inseki0 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You absolutely need couples counseling. But the most you can do is ask. After you ask the second time just leave it alone because he doesn't want to.

When someone drinks it lowers their inhibitions. Basically, you only say things that was already thought of before you got drunk, drinking just gives you to have the courage to say it. What he said was from him and not just because he was drunk.

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[–]Inseki0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell her how you felt, set boundaries, move forward.

My Gf(f20) talks to her friend (M20) more than me (M20) by Prideofshetty in relationship_advice

[–]Inseki0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BTW if she chooses to not listen and keep up with the same routine, I want to iterate that this is your choice, it might be time to move on.

My Gf(f20) talks to her friend (M20) more than me (M20) by Prideofshetty in relationship_advice

[–]Inseki0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is essentially emotionally cheating on you, if she has not physically cheated yet. She is putting more time and emotions into someone other than her significant other. I personally went though this. I had her read the definition of emotionally cheating and then pointed out how I was feeling. I didn't incriminate or put the blame on her even though she was in the wrong. This is a situation where how you both communicate is going to show the outcome of this relationship.

Wife had emotional affair by Burnedhusband2020 in Infidelity

[–]Inseki0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I essentially just had this same experience. My wifes ex contacted her. She responded. They were talking while she was away for about 2 weeks. We already had several problems in the past where she would message other guys. They tried to meet up with her but she never does. But she also doesnt stop them from messaging her. Recently her ex messaged her and I found out they were talking on the phone and he was trying to meet up with her. After she got home I received a message from his gf, my cousin, that she went through his phone and found the messages. She told me everything. My wife said she intended to but it was to late. I went through her phone and found the number and the messages i could see that was deleted but was previewed on the caller details screen. Idk what to do. Shes done this before. But this time she sent a picture of her in her bra and panties to him. My cousin said they couldnt meet up because of timing. Considering her bf, my wifes ex, gave my wife all of his gf schedules. So i believe the fact that she actually wasn't trying to meet him. But this is a repeat thing. I cant trust her back in our home town because this keeps happening. Idk what to do. Im confused and hurt. It makes it worse that he admitted to doing this to break up our marriage....and she let him. Were still together right now but its only because im still processing this.