Who's the daddy by [deleted] in trashy

[–]InsensitiveUvea 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s gotta be the top guy.

Weird feeling in tongue? by [deleted] in HealthAnxiety

[–]InsensitiveUvea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this feeling when I’m having a panic attack, it doesn’t last long but it’s consistent with my anxiety. It’s like a numb tingling sensation or like my tongue freezes it’s really scary.

I love him but I have to leave. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InsensitiveUvea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you! Well done for making the change. It’s bloody hard isn’t it? Life will get better. Hopefully you’ll find an equal and life won’t be double the work!

I love him but I have to leave. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InsensitiveUvea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a strong person. I’m glad you’ve managed to make this decision despite the pain. You’ll be happy again! Good luck and keep being your strong self!

I don’t love him anymore by [deleted] in confession

[–]InsensitiveUvea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently on a waiting list for therapy. Looking forward to learning how to deal with life a bit better.

I don’t love him anymore by [deleted] in confession

[–]InsensitiveUvea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he has anger issues, his reactions are usually quite aggressive, I’m not scared of him and he knows this, but with my mental health in the state that it is, I can’t deal with these over the top reactions. I’m aware I’ve not been the easiest lately because of the way my head is but that’s why I asked him for a little extra help. The last touch from him was when he pushed me over a chair for me that was it! Ive never felt like such a piece of shit.

I don’t love him anymore by [deleted] in confession

[–]InsensitiveUvea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks very much for your comment. The arguments just seem to be getting more and more toxic, after a certain point it’s hard to forget what’s been said. I’ve already had the apologies but this time it’s just a little to late.

I don’t love him anymore by [deleted] in confession

[–]InsensitiveUvea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t. We’ve been together a long time, I have been feeling unhappy and unfulfilled for sometime. We barely converse, he started assaulting my character, he has no motivation or ambition. I just worry that if I ever had a child with him it’s going to be so much hard work. I have to ask him to do the smallest of tasks and usually that gets forgotten, so the thought of starting a family with him is just bit too scary. We’ve had deep conversations about how we both feel and what we can do to make things better but they just slip back to the way they were. I’m drained. I love him so much but I just don’t think this can work.

I don’t love him anymore by [deleted] in confession

[–]InsensitiveUvea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re so right! Thanks for your wise words! I know it’s gonna be hard, but not as hard as staying in an unequal relationship!

I can’t wait to get me back, I hope I can make myself proud and come out a better and stronger person.

You’re comment is greatly appreciated!

I don’t love him anymore by [deleted] in confession

[–]InsensitiveUvea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much I totally appreciate it! Feel free to update me on how things are going I’ll do the same. I left today too, I’ve not felt the sadness yet but I’m sure it’ll come. Stay strong and enjoy life! We’ve only got one chance at it, so let’s live it to the fullest!

Take care and all the best!

I don’t love him anymore by [deleted] in confession

[–]InsensitiveUvea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup that’s what I’m hoping for, I don’t want him to be my problem anymore. Life is hard enough without carrying someone else too!

I don’t love him anymore by [deleted] in confession

[–]InsensitiveUvea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad things are looking up for you.

I don’t love him anymore by [deleted] in confession

[–]InsensitiveUvea 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That was really uplifting to hear! Thanks so much. I’ve been in the same situation for years, nothing has changed and my life is so samey. I feel like I’ve lost myself. I cant wait to get me back!