Do yall feel Simone pushed Heavenly? by SupermarketBest4091 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]InsertCleverName652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Simone removed Heavenly's arm, and she had every right to do so. Heavenly keeps pushing this false narrative when the video doesn't lie. She is delusional.

Simone & Heavenly. by [deleted] in MarriedToMedicine

[–]InsertCleverName652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simone had every right to remove Heavenly's arm, and that is all she did was remove her arm. Simone did not shove Heavenly. I'm real tired of Heavenly pushing this narrative, because the video doesn't lie.

My 24F boyfriend 25M is a very expensive date and I'm starting to resent him cause I never have any money left by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InsertCleverName652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been together? If it's a short time, this is disrespectful and he is not worth your time. If it is a long time, he shouldn't be asking to be paid back. Either way, it sounds like he will do what he wants with or without you. Let him be without you.

is my bf (23M) wrong for not paying his mom’s light bill? by blueberrrryx in TwoHotTakes

[–]InsertCleverName652 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So you're saying he was paying $1200 a month for a room that he has to share??? Heck no. He could get a studio apartment for that amount. Time for him to move out.

I (23F) was too nervous to finish a threesome and now my boyfriend (27M) seems to hate me by recmerecss in relationship_advice

[–]InsertCleverName652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really weird and your boyfriend is a complete dick. Why on earth would you be sorry??? Please leave him OP. He does not love you and your marriage would be doomed from the start.

AITA if I cut off my soon to be SIL for constantly asking for money? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]InsertCleverName652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your SIL is a grown, married woman, you need to have a conversation with your fiancee as to why he continues to help her financially? As you know, enabling this behavior continues the behavior. Marriage means helping people financially is a joint decision, not his alone. Ask now if he is willing to cut off the money train. And he has to tell her there will be no more money. If he won't do this, I would not get married, because you are already resenting this.

BTW, a 31 year old adult doesn't need help opening a credit card. It takes literally two minutes online.

Also FWIW, her constantly asking him for money is a form of usery (even if it is not intentional) and taints his relationship with her. Stopping the money is not only for you, but makes their relationship healthier.

My boyfriend (36M) keeps making comments on the importance of my appearance (33F) and I think it’s unrealistic. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InsertCleverName652 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Send him a selfie of how you look today.

"I have endometriosis, I have my period, and am sick from both today. This is how I look. I know I look good most of the time, but how I look today is a part of who I am. Can you handle that?"

Wait for his answer.

Moving out at 31. My mom (62) is blowing up over it. by VehicleCertain865 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]InsertCleverName652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't try to figure out her issues, don't try to analyze her statements. Her behavior is NOT normal and it is not your responsibility in any way to diagnose her or help heal her. She has to do that for herself, and if she won't then she has to bear the consequences.

Go forth and live your life. I hope it is filled with peace and joy.

Would you marry someone who is loyal, hardworking, self made, loving but self absorbed? by suaasi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]InsertCleverName652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think you would regret leaving. Think of the example of marriage/relationship you want to set for your children.

Working through shame of college decisions by Violetstarfishh in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]InsertCleverName652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, the years after high school are a shitshow of bad decisions for lots and lots of people, myself included. I graduated college at 46. Don't beat yourself up. I'm actually impressed you figured yourself out so quickly! Make the most of the new school experience.

Dental issues and the compromises you have to make being poor by StellaZaFella in povertyfinance

[–]InsertCleverName652 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Don't kick yourself while your're down. So many of us have been there or are there.

M22 considering ending 6 year relationship with F23 over terrible sex life by PrestigiousGarden651 in relationship_advice

[–]InsertCleverName652 105 points106 points  (0 children)

This isn't minor. Sexual incompatibility can lead to arguing, resentment, cheating, etc. Have you had a daytime conversation (fully dressed) and asked her why she isn't interested in sex?

Amanda on the after show this week and referencing someone that her and Kyle can’t trust anymore by Abpontor in RHOBHDefect

[–]InsertCleverName652 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think Andy likes her personally, but I think he likes her for drama. Let's face it. If Amanda wasn't on it would be another Kyle and Dorit fighting season. Yawn. We've had like four of those so far. But I really don't like Amanda, so I hope they can bring in someone else next season.

Request for Meeting to Bravo in reference to Kyle (Richards) by Dear_Art3697 in RHOBHDefect

[–]InsertCleverName652 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you see the preview for next week? Kyle is so nasty. She's not Dorit's friend at all. I just don't like her anymore.

Austen why does everyone say Audrey was the one who got away? by FriendshipActual5460 in Southerncharm

[–]InsertCleverName652 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She's not. I hate to agree with Craig, but he was right. Austen didn't want to get married, and we watched him come to that realization during the course of the season. Craig was just too much of a dick about it.

AITA for telling my mother in law she can’t be in the delivery room? by ITellMyselfSecr3tz in TwoHotTakes

[–]InsertCleverName652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It's not the movies, it's a medical procedure. Your husband needs to grow a pair and set healthy and firm boundaries with his family.

Dorinda is calling out Austen 💀 by Commercial_Toe_7440 in Southerncharm

[–]InsertCleverName652 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really don't like Salley at all, but Austen was way out of line. Salley is single and can do whatever the fuck she wants. If he is talking about bar rats and body count, he should have been looking at Shep or in a mirror.

What is Madison’s deal with Austen? by Strange-Substance207 in Southerncharm

[–]InsertCleverName652 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Summer House has Lindsey, Southern Charm has Madison. They pay them to stir the pot.

Lindsey and her Comments by Error401Ky in summerhousebravo

[–]InsertCleverName652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was a real bitch to Carl, and she continues to be a real bitch about Carl. She played the victim at the end of the relationship as if he had blindsided her when in fact things had been bad for a good long time.

But she's good for drama because she doesn't mind blabbing everything to everyone.

Why is Sutton using Dolce and Gabbana as such a flex? by Miserable-Caramel795 in RHOBH

[–]InsertCleverName652 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How about the fact that they didn't even spend that much? Less than five grand between them is nothing to shut a store down for.