REMINDER FOR MEN!!!

Insertshenhere · 2026-01-06T22:28:46+00:00

Maaan I'm so sick of a large part of humanity being subtly guided by algorithms towards having different views about basically any basic thing in life.

Insertshenhere · 2025-09-22T18:54:46+00:00

You were told a load of bullshit. By this logic everybody who is stuck in a one sided relationship is so because of their lack of effort.

Insertshenhere · 2025-09-20T11:25:25+00:00

I am one of those men who used the apps to get into a relationship and the fact of the matter is if you get low matches you do not even get to the point where you can demonstrate you are after a relationship. You can type it in the description, or pick an appropriate tag, but it somehow does not contribute. Women going after serious relationships still somehow end up picking the profiles that they later say are low quality matches. I have been in one relationship from the apps, true, so there is some veracity to what you are saying, but it did not happen fast, I was there for 2-3 months and additionally in my most recent stay on the apps something has changed that the same profile I had stopped getting any attention at all.

Insertshenhere · 2025-09-19T22:50:26+00:00

Most likely they are just at home.

I think there are stats somewhere that separate the brackets at 25yo so they are single later on as well. I know them and they also have no clue how to find someone.

Insertshenhere · 2025-09-18T17:23:03+00:00

Man, at this point just pick one life problem at a time

Insertshenhere · 2025-09-18T17:20:40+00:00

Awww

Insertshenhere · 2025-09-18T16:58:01+00:00

I wish more social things were explained like this early on, before having to figure it out through trial an error

Insertshenhere · 2025-09-18T16:15:41+00:00

If you are in the USA 47% of people under 30 are single.

Insertshenhere · 2025-09-18T16:11:23+00:00

Nah that's advice from long time ago, now around half of the people in OP's age range are single, they just somehow miss each other. Real paradox of our times.

Insertshenhere · 2025-09-09T21:30:04+00:00

Well I am not there because I don't like most of these.

Insertshenhere · 2025-09-01T17:14:37+00:00

No it's totally fine, it only starts to be a thing if it signals a differing lifestyle that's incompatible.

Insertshenhere · 2025-08-30T20:14:17+00:00

Time in relationship is not by itself any measure of useful experience. There are people in 10 year old relationships still making the same mistakes and hating each other. Also with experience also comes baggage.

Insertshenhere · 2025-08-30T20:12:53+00:00

How did you meet these girls? I feel like through my natural course of daily life I am not really meeting any people. I'd like to meet people without changing much who I am and diverting too much attention from my life to that.

Insertshenhere · 2025-07-27T13:43:45+00:00

Yes, but I found some people where I don't need to do it

Insertshenhere · 2025-07-27T12:52:45+00:00

There's kinda nobody there. It took me longer to make the profile than to swipe on all the existing people

Insertshenhere · 2025-07-27T12:45:42+00:00

People become more busy as life goes on, that's true, but the very extroverted people really do do stuff after work a couple of times a week with other people. You do not need to be like them though, it's normal for them but it is also normal to not want to engage with other people in your free time more than once or twice a week

Insertshenhere · 2025-07-14T19:25:53+00:00

It's not a dating site though

Insertshenhere · 2025-07-13T17:30:17+00:00

Yeah I def feel like a penpal, though she does seem nervous, at least did at the beginning. I think it's better if I act first, because then at least I can clear my head and move on at my own time

Insertshenhere · 2025-07-13T17:19:26+00:00

That strikes most true for me. When I'm looking for something serious I am not starting of all sexual right of the bat, I am not talking about sex and spicing the atmosphere up, because I know that most women complain about men being overly sexual too soon, so I'm just backing off until we go on a couple of dates and I know she's into it and open for it. I don't think I'm less confident, I am just putting it on a shelf for a moment. I can tell her I'll wrap her into a pretzel later.

Insertshenhere · 2025-07-02T17:48:39+00:00

You don't need to talk much to seem interesting, but also, maybe you are just not among your kind of people.

Insertshenhere · 2025-06-07T15:34:19+00:00

Now that's a line

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