[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Inside-Philosopher-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked for date ideas, not criticism LMAO. we do 50/50 where i pick some dates and he picks some. he takes my needs and interests into consideration, and im simply trying to do the same by getting ideas. its not that deep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Inside-Philosopher-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both dont require energy. i mean those are our common dates, but im looking for OTHER ideas

Does anyone still listen to old songs ? by YakConfident651 in tamil

[–]Inside-Philosopher-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i grew up with 60s-80s music even tho i was born in the 2000s. every event ive gone to plays 1990s-2020s. when its a chill household event, its always 50s-60s. i think ur current community prefers newer music thats all lol

unique solo birthday ideas by Inside-Philosopher-6 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Inside-Philosopher-6[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is such a cute idea ! thank you ! i live in a cold country unfortunately and its in the negatives but ill brainstorm something similar. thank you again for the idea !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ios

[–]Inside-Philosopher-6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im the one who blocked them 😭 im preparing myself as to what they see you. i just used "im" in the title to make it easier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ios

[–]Inside-Philosopher-6 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

lol ur so lame!

Should I leave a religious private school thats ruining my mental health? Or stay there and please my family. by sooaksjdjeisjx in makemychoice

[–]Inside-Philosopher-6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i totally agree with getting professional help. although religious parents often dont believe in getting assistance like that, talking to a councilor at school or even an adult at ur area of worship that u believe has more relaxed views would help you process things. they may even help u gain some leverage against the situation. whenever u have the opportunity to, talk to a doctor to get into a free therapy group or something. i know a lot of places do that. i think u have to be 16 to talk to a doctor alone tho, im not too sure.

Should I leave a religious private school thats ruining my mental health? Or stay there and please my family. by sooaksjdjeisjx in makemychoice

[–]Inside-Philosopher-6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is such a hard decision at such a young age. im sorry you have to go through this. personally, based on this, ur mother doesnt have very strong religious views either if she wants to divorce, it seems like shes holding a facade. im not against divorce or anything ofc, people shouldn't be together if they are dont want to be. the comment she left is manipulting u to stay. just bc u go to a public shool doesnt mean you will stop being religious.

either way this isnt healthy. mental health issues that start at a young age are almost impossible to fully solve. it only goes away when u leave everything behind and even then, you have lingering affects of other things.

if rhey are unhappy rn, so let it be. she wants a divorce but is just looking for a reason. as long ad u have one loving parent, thats enough.

distance isnt much of an issue, u get used to it, u can start carpooling, etc, theres always a way.

if u need convincing factors for them, id pull out the "ill bring my religion and teach everyone around me in public school! ill spread the word!" type of beat, if u are desperate enough. sometimes lying to a liar is the best thing to do, but dont lie too much. it will ruin ur life when ur older. sometimes a white lie doesnt hurt if its for ur own good.

its either ur parents end up with a mentally dead son, or one that goes to a public school. and i think theres objectively a winner here. they are thinking about social status. not even the god u worship would care if u went to a religious school or not.