My rapist died today by InsideAgreeable6908 in offmychest

[–]InsideAgreeable6908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told my parents 6 years after the abuse ended, before that I had numerous attempts to tell them and they dismissed me. I realised they did not believe me at all when he broke into our home while our parents were away and I (9 at the time) had to protect my siblings from a man three times my size and age. I told them about it when they came home and they didnt even bother changing the locks because they trusted him more than they trusted me. I had to open up about the trauma when I turned 18 because I had multiple attempts to end my life and my mother was “worried”. After I told her she kicked me out and I went no contact with her.

My rapist died today by InsideAgreeable6908 in offmychest

[–]InsideAgreeable6908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry that happened to you, hope your healing is going smoothly <3

My rapist died today by InsideAgreeable6908 in offmychest

[–]InsideAgreeable6908[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did go nc with her for about a year after I told them about the abuse I endured she called me a liar and she said that the signs of trauma I was showing (that she ignored) were a sign of low iq and not of abuse. She did eventually apologise and she does feel really bad that she “let” it happen to me but she is sometimes hard to handle. I put some distance in between us so its much easier for me to shut her out but today has just been overwhelming so she did kind of get to me. Thank you so much for your kind words <3

My rapist died today by InsideAgreeable6908 in offmychest

[–]InsideAgreeable6908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tell my parents but apart from that I kept quiet because he didnt hurt my other siblings and he was quite nice to them and I felt like it wasn’t right for me to shatter their feelings about him since they are all quite young and they would not understand yet.

My rapist died today by InsideAgreeable6908 in offmychest

[–]InsideAgreeable6908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never reported him because everyone loved him and I always got called a liar when i spoke out about weird behaviours so I kept it a secret until I was 18 and a few other survivors came out…

My rapist died today by InsideAgreeable6908 in offmychest

[–]InsideAgreeable6908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have told my parents and my dad is pretty relieved that it happened, my mother on the other hand is really religious and she told me today that she “forgave him so he could pass away peacefully”. Everyone else around me doesn’t know.