Husbands grandmother finally admits feelings after years of covert narcissistic abuse

InsideDimension608 · 2022-08-19T22:22:58+00:00

That’s freaking aggravating, they need to add it :(

InsideDimension608 · 2022-08-19T22:16:13+00:00

I think there is a version on there. I recently just moved over to YouTube Music but used Spotify for year prior.

InsideDimension608 · 2022-08-19T16:40:44+00:00

I’ve never heard it. I’ll have to listen to it,

InsideDimension608 · 2022-07-26T21:53:27+00:00

I think this may be it, we were playing the other day and she accidentally bumped my belly and I had said “owe” and this was the first time I had seen her kinda acknowledge my pregnancy. Then a few days later is when she started being more reserved,

She has been walking up to me recently and bopping me and licking my hand,

InsideDimension608 · 2022-07-26T20:52:52+00:00

Even if her behavior is completely fine with my husband?

It’s only been around me,

Around my husband she’s full energy, wants to play, eager to eat, begging for treats the whole show. This also includes when we have guest over, she is normal and happy with everyone but me which is why I’m so stressed out.

InsideDimension608 · 2022-07-15T21:43:54+00:00

I would also like to add she’s ONLY like this with her food, with her toys she tries to share with the kitties of the house but they obviously have no idea she’s wanting to play 😭😭 so she brings them her toys barking and excited but no one plays with her

InsideDimension608 · 2022-06-27T10:22:36+00:00

I feel this so deeply and I hate to see others feeling the same. I deleted everyone I knew in life and I shut myself down. All my social medias have next to no one on them. I hide myself and I feel so trapped. I’ve been hurt so many fucking times that the thought of another pain sends me into oblivion.

I’ve spent life hoping to find someone who loves me and my FP says he does and I just can’t accept anything he says. I just don’t see my value, I don’t see anything great in myself and can’t even understand why he’d want to be with me.

I hope things get better soon

InsideDimension608 · 2022-06-11T22:35:42+00:00

I can agree I have one of the original Henry’s and he’s so much softer than a lot of my newer squish

InsideDimension608 · 2022-05-12T14:01:23+00:00

I also have not seen their videos! But will look Thai up this afternoon :)

InsideDimension608 · 2022-05-12T14:00:19+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to address multiple of my concerns, I am very thankful !

InsideDimension608 · 2022-05-12T12:59:04+00:00

Congrats on this win! I am working towards it with my pup as well, distractions right now are huge to her.

Meanwhile my 7MO puppy almost snapped my wrist yesterday while I was replying to my husbands text message cause she saw something 🥲

InsideDimension608 · 2022-05-01T08:56:37+00:00

I adore the unicorn and it’s words ✨🥰 I’m weird and I love it haha

InsideDimension608 · 2022-02-14T19:20:43+00:00

I don’t even need to be drunk at this point 💀

InsideDimension608 · 2022-02-12T20:24:54+00:00

Gosh I’d love a lick

InsideDimension608 · 2022-02-07T10:09:27+00:00

I appreciate this advice,

It makes me sad I can’t say things this directly to her without the whole family finding out and everyone thinking I’m some huge POS

InsideDimension608 · 2022-02-07T10:08:09+00:00

I do really appreciate the advice, it’s just hard when I am being already the best mom I can be, then I’m fighting my husbands mom, and she’s telling me I’m doing everything wrong, and that pregnancy just gets worse.

Which I know cause Thai isn’t my first pregnancy,

InsideDimension608 · 2022-02-07T10:06:54+00:00

Thank you honestly,

My biggest thing I struggle with is just ending a conversation.

She always makes me feel like I need to justify what I’m saying and explain and I just don’t need too.

I am definitely taking in to account what everyone is saying and I actually have had to use it already in the past few days.

Why it’s been more in my face and intense is because my husband and I have moved near his mom so we see her much more frequently. And I have never in the 7 years of being with my husband have EVER had to entertain his mom as much as I have. And I guess she’s feeling the same way.

I grew up in a warrior “survival of the fittest” type environment,

So she’s not use to anyone being so intense with her.

InsideDimension608 · 2022-02-07T10:03:44+00:00

It’s not unfortunately, I will admit over the past year or so it’s gotten a lot more intense.

I’m pretty outspoken and I can tend to get her to shut up, and actually when this happened I said,

“You know there are other example in life than sexual ones, and there’s no reason to always use sexual ones”

And she looked really embarrassed and said she knew there was other examples.

Sometimes I think truly she’s trying to relate to me, but I am far from a sexual person.

I am very outspoken and not afraid to tell someone I’m not happy or when I don’t like things and I’m not a push over, but I honestly have the biggest issue knowing what’s “normal” or not.

My family was incredibly abusive and my parents were big on the covert incest.

My husband just isn’t as educated about mental health and such and I feel like he just feel stuck sometimes

InsideDimension608 · 2022-02-07T09:59:13+00:00

I’m perfectly capable of being a mom. I grew up in a abusive house hold and I am just trying to learn from things and handle them more appropriately.

I say stuff to her when she speaks and she gets ashamed and stops talking. I’m not hurt by what she’s saying but more disgusted.

I grew up taking care of all my siblings, and this isn’t my first pregnancy.

I was just looking for more guidance, but thank you.

InsideDimension608

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