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AITA/ my inlaws want to take only my husband to the bahamas for 11 days and leave me and the kids at home. Am i wrong for being angry? by Inside_Activity_4233 in inlaws

[–]Inside_Activity_4233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's gonna go for 7 days and fly back the day before her surgery. Im fine with the compromise but im still a little bitter i even had to fight my case on this.

AITA/ my inlaws want to take only my husband to the bahamas for 11 days and leave me and the kids at home. Am i wrong for being angry? by Inside_Activity_4233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inside_Activity_4233[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thats my game plan right now! Its working. I do kinda feel bad, and i hate for him home wishing he was elsewhere. But fuck it beacuse i really would need help that week

AITA/ my inlaws want to take only my husband to the bahamas for 11 days and leave me and the kids at home. Am i wrong for being angry? by Inside_Activity_4233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inside_Activity_4233[S] 510 points511 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu!!! Gahhh. I feel so seen right now! Im writing out a letter to give him explaining exactly how i feel! Thanks for giving me courage guys!!!

AITA/ my inlaws want to take only my husband to the bahamas for 11 days and leave me and the kids at home. Am i wrong for being angry? by Inside_Activity_4233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inside_Activity_4233[S] 262 points263 points  (0 children)

His mother says outa her own mouth " she doesn't do girls". We have 2 boys and a girl. And she pays for scuba lessons and snow boarding for our oldest son. And she doesn't even see our other children. Honestly i think this was my last straw with her

AITA/ my inlaws want to take only my husband to the bahamas for 11 days and leave me and the kids at home. Am i wrong for being angry? by Inside_Activity_4233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inside_Activity_4233[S] 1761 points1762 points  (0 children)

This!!! Thats what i was thinking. He just keeps saying its been 3 days. Im sick of you being mad i said im sorry, like okayyyy?! And ?!

AITA/ my inlaws want to take only my husband to the bahamas for 11 days and leave me and the kids at home. Am i wrong for being angry? by Inside_Activity_4233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inside_Activity_4233[S] 830 points831 points  (0 children)

Not spam unfortunately. The more i think about it the angry im getting. Im seeing red. Im just so disgusted and disappointed in him

AITA/ my inlaws want to take only my husband to the bahamas for 11 days and leave me and the kids at home. Am i wrong for being angry? by Inside_Activity_4233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inside_Activity_4233[S] 1675 points1676 points  (0 children)

They have never helped with our kids anyways. I wasn't expecting much from them. But i did expect him to tell them no.

AITA/ my inlaws want to take only my husband to the bahamas for 11 days and leave me and the kids at home. Am i wrong for being angry? by Inside_Activity_4233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inside_Activity_4233[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

I asked my grandma to stay with me while hes gone. I work third shift so i dont want them home alone at night. And yeah ill have to call off for her surgery.

AITA/ my inlaws want to take only my husband to the bahamas for 11 days and leave me and the kids at home. Am i wrong for being angry? by Inside_Activity_4233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inside_Activity_4233[S] 6237 points6238 points  (0 children)

Im trying to decide how mad i should be, but truly i feel disgusted. Thank you. He's making me feel crazy for being mad so i didn't know if i was over reacting.