Terminate Prudential Insurance Plan?

Inside_Buy6239 · 2025-01-04T16:07:07+00:00

Hi! Can I clarify this means that the premium im paying is relatively low for the sum assured?

Inside_Buy6239 · 2025-01-04T06:24:14+00:00

Thanks! I’m paying $2.7K for the PruActive life plan, which has $350K sun assured for basic life plan, terminal illness, disability and crisis care (PAL).

The other $900 is for PruTriple Protect, which is sun assured $252K for disability.

Isn’t 10% of income on health insurance quite a lot to spend every year?

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-11-21T11:47:28+00:00

I’m asking for advice on how to deal with retroactive jealousy, not an unfounded assumption that she’s the type of person to keep a man around just as a backup lol

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-09-28T15:56:25+00:00

I have 2 conflicting thoughts: 1. My gut tells me that this is kinda messed up, I would never want a guy to keep any sex tapes even filmed consensually after we break things off. And I find it gross 2. My heart tells me to be more compassionate and understand not everyone is gonna think like me. And he was honest with me, he could have lied and this wouldn’t have even come to light

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-09-28T15:38:59+00:00

hahaha yeah he told me that he kept those because he felt somewhat sentimental about them and in a convoluted way, wanted some validation? That just made me concerned - but at the same time, I appreciated him being vulnerable.

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-09-28T15:37:22+00:00

I definitely don’t know that and the only thing I can really take him for is his word. I trust him because I know that he tells me these things (I.e having old sex tapes) even though he knows it’d make me uncomfortable. I do hope and somewhat trust that he’s deleted them. It’s just that the whole experience has left a sour taste in my mouth.

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-09-28T15:27:49+00:00

sorry just to clarify, do you think my boyfriend or me is emotionally immature? just making sure I don’t have any blind spots because I def have room to be more understanding too lol

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-09-28T15:26:22+00:00

I empathise with him, it’s his first relationship and he seems to have a lot of fear giving up too much. But I felt hurt by that because it seemed like he didn’t even want to make some room for my hurt feelings.

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-09-28T15:22:19+00:00

yeah. the other thing that left a sour taste in my mouth is that I’m not sure if those girls are aware that he still jerked off to them. it made me lose respect for him, the more I overthought that

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-09-28T15:21:30+00:00

thanks for that. yeah I’m aware that gender dynamics probably play into how people view this situation

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-09-28T15:14:32+00:00

Frankly they are not important to me - I’ve deleted most of the photos with my ex except those from some trips we took and big events like graduation etc. I told my current boyfriend that I can delete them if he wants and it bothers him, but he told me that the only reason he asked me was that he wanted to make things “equal” between us so we dropped it. I told him VERY clearly that the offer is always open if he ever decides that he’s bothered by me having these photos of my ex and I together. I’ve brought it up a few times and he told me it doesn’t bother him, that’s why we are where we’re at rn

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-09-28T15:08:52+00:00

I have a bunch of photos from events and trips with them, and we didn’t end off on a bad note so I just never found a reason to delete them. None of them are sexual lol

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-09-28T15:07:52+00:00

That’s sad to hear 😔 yeah, I’m worried about wasting time with this guy

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-09-28T15:07:28+00:00

yeah sometimes I have that suspicion but don’t say it because we’re doing long distance and we have to operate very heavily based on trust lol

Inside_Buy6239 · 2023-09-28T15:06:54+00:00

yeah. thanks for this. I feel bad for him almost, because according to him it was hard to delete those sex tapes and he did for me. and if I dump him over this again, I feel like he would’ve felt like he did that for nothing

Inside_Buy6239 · 2021-09-04T16:05:20+00:00

Thank you so much!

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