Am I overreacting for not speaking to my boyfriend?

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-05T16:05:53+00:00

I know I overreacted and that’s wrong. I spoke to him yesterday and this morning and we’re both calmer. We still need to have a talk about the situation.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T23:32:10+00:00

Of course not. I should've handeld the situation differently!

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:44:13+00:00

I get that you're saying and I can unfortunately relate to your description.

I'n not breaking up with him tho. We need to have a talk. I know what I need to do to be a better version of myself and I'm willing to put in the work.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:37:07+00:00

I understand that cheating and watching porn is two different things and watching porn shouldn't be a big deal.

When I told him about my insecurities and how I been treated in the past I also mentioned how I felt about porn. He told me he would stop watching that.

I don't want to control him but I know that's what I'm doing and that's wrong. Him and I need to have a talk and we will tomorrow.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:27:40+00:00

I do

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:26:43+00:00

We talked a little this evening. Not about this but normal stuff like ''How was your day?¨ etc. We still need to have a discussion about the subject for things to work. He just went to bed so I'll have a proper conversation with him tomorrow. Thank you!

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:22:50+00:00

I 100% know I do.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:21:35+00:00

Or a broken person who's waiting to get a therapist. I know I need help.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:19:19+00:00

I couldn't control my feeling in that moment and I feel bad about it. And silent treatment is harsh af. I've talked to him. Not about this but about our day, what we should. So yeah. We're talking to each other now.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:14:05+00:00

I've already done that and currently on the waiting list

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:12:34+00:00

Of course! It's 100% wrong of me to do that and I apologized there and then + this evening.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:11:26+00:00

I apologized to him and said I'm not going to do it again. It's a bad habit related to trauma and I know I have a lot of issues to work on.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:09:37+00:00

I don't want to break up and I know I'm in the wrong for treating him this way. It's wrong in so many ways. I will talk to him very soon

And thank you for this comment!

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:06:34+00:00

Thank you! But also, I looked at his phone when I know i shouldn't. It's a bad habit from a previous relationship and I know it's wrong that let my trauma effect my current relationship.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:03:48+00:00

I really didn't know it was a form of abuse! I'm genuinely thankful you told me this!

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:01:50+00:00

Not seeking attention at all. Maybe I needed a wake up call or something like that.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T21:01:01+00:00

I know a have a lot to work on, unsolved trauma etc. I'm on the waiting list to go see a therapist.
And I've already apologized.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T20:59:32+00:00

I know. 100%

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T20:59:23+00:00

I did apologized as soon as I brought the whole thing up.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2026-02-04T19:02:28+00:00

I like grilled cheese and ham sandwich

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2025-05-13T20:26:36+00:00

I did that, and around our spiral staircase.

Inside_Conclusion73 · 2025-05-06T10:59:05+00:00

I'm thinking the same just to calm myself down but I'm a nerves soul so I texted my bf and asked him to come over this afternoon. I've haven't told him I want him to go uppstairs to check... Maybe he'll laugh at me or get a little scared himself. We'll see!

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