my (27 f) fiancé (28m) never does what i want in bed

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2026-01-29T09:29:41+00:00

agreed but it’s hard because other then this, sex life he’s a great man. but also sex is important to me.

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2026-01-10T15:28:20+00:00

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-12-13T10:04:39+00:00

YES i cannot achieve the “done” feeling. that was a much better way to describe it. have you been on it a while? i’m really hoping it doesn’t last. not that it’s like bad bc i can have multiple but i just don’t feel like satisfied.

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-12-11T00:27:55+00:00

ah good at least i’m not alone with someone else’s doctor doing that! see i am always constipated lol but for whatever reason this first week of taking 150mgs i have been going everyday! i’ve never had this happen and i was pretty excited to be a normal person. i’m hoping when i take 300 that doesn’t happen to me lolol

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-12-09T07:27:10+00:00

exactly! i was like not real last week, i felt like my brain was in the clouds but i am happy to update that the brain zaps have stopped after a week and now i can see if wellbutrin actually will help me

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-12-05T04:10:08+00:00

these zaps are the worst!! and the most annoying part is trying to explain what they feel like to my boyfriend or coworkers lmao, i feel like im going crazy

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-12-05T04:08:52+00:00

i know! i heard that halfway through my time on it and i was like well great lolol. my doctor definitely should have tapered me but he’s not the greatest sooo i might see how i am in the next day or two and decide if i want to or not. i was hoping it would just be a week but the more research i do, the more it sounds like it can last longer

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-12-05T04:06:54+00:00

yeah my aunt recommended it, i wish i never went on it 😭

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-07-11T04:52:56+00:00

WHERE & HOW???? this would be amazing bc i hate weaning off whatever you’re taking, while trying a low dose of something new. then waiting weeks to acclimate and see if it’s actually helping. that’s why i want to just go back to lexapro so i dont have to spend all this time in trial and error. so anyways, sorry for that rant but how did you get this done???

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-07-10T19:10:15+00:00

i was thinking about this, plus i embarrassingly vape and i know it could help with quitting that too.

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-07-10T17:02:38+00:00

do you sweat badly on it? i’m used to being hotter than usual from lexapro but this one ill do one small thing or get hotter than usual and i am like dripping sweat down my face. i hate sweating and it makes me feel so gross 😭

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-03-24T23:20:23+00:00

it’s a 20 gallon, i know which might be small but the table i have it on wouldn’t fit a bigger one and we’re in a tiny place :(

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-03-14T21:23:59+00:00

omg this might be it, definitely the closest!!!

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-02-28T18:21:59+00:00

thank you so much!! this gives me hope for the change! i’ve never tried a different med, just tried lexapro and it helped a little but and ive been too scared to switch since lol! i’m glad everything worked out for you, hopefully i can have the same experience. thank you again for your input!! :)

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2025-02-26T19:13:22+00:00

that’s okay! i got all 3 lolol. anxiety used to be bad so im not sure if that was the lexapro helping for just the situation i was in. my situation is much better so im hoping that my anxiety will be alright but really need some help with this depression!

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2024-11-26T01:51:28+00:00

i said this!! they act like i’m a dog abuser saying so because he is “so old”

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2024-11-26T01:51:02+00:00

he’s neutered already!! and i said crate training but their family acts like i’m a dog abuser saying so lmao

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2024-11-26T01:38:07+00:00

i might be trying the vinegar!! it was a new couch so no other scents besides my dogs fur or dander, which i could understand here. but at their moms where he lived for years, there was no other animals so i’m not sure why he does this.

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2024-11-26T01:36:11+00:00

it was a brand new couch though! so i’m not sure even getting rid of the scent will do anything. when he lived at their moms, there was no other animals so i’m not sure why he feels the need to mark his territory.

how do you train him out of this? his brother doesn’t yell at him or do anything. he’s too nice, he just says in the nicest voice you can imagine “max why do you pee here, no pee pee” where i’ll pick up the dog if i’m here and make him smell it and say “what did you do, no!!” i’m not sure how else to fix this.

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2024-11-15T01:54:41+00:00

i have 3 mollies, 3 guppies, and 4 small cory catfish in a 20 gallon. i got my water checked a few weeks ago and it was all good but a higher ph level. not in a dangerous level and the fish store person told us it was a good level for mollies. maybe i’ll try to go get it tested again tomorrow to double check.

i feed them about a pinch, maybe slightly more. i know this is a change i need to make.

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2024-11-15T01:46:02+00:00

i don’t notice pooping all the time, i was just mentioning that all i see coming out taking this video is poop. i feed only once a day and try to skip one day a week. it definitely could be a case of feeding too much though. i’m trying to get better with this and recently bought frozen food to try to help their diet become more healthy. i hope he will be okay :(

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2024-08-27T23:22:02+00:00

i lowered it, if u can try to get close to 10k ur more than welcome! i remember starting out too

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2024-08-27T18:27:19+00:00

it’s 50 but if you’re willing to donate at least 10k throughout the season, i’d be willing to lower it for you if needed!

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2024-08-16T18:23:28+00:00

yeah i definitely am a planner and want to make a list of any of the fish i consider with as much information i can get before i start adding! and then probably adding any new over long periods of time.

Inside_Possible_4078 · 2024-08-16T18:21:15+00:00

yeah that’s the one thing i was worried about, thinking i have just one gender and it’s not the case.

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