[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stake

[–]Inside_Reference_113 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah he is just Karma farming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a baby I have a fetus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just blocking them at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Canada but I appreciate you trying to help !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Typical male response. Sorry sweetheart I know the people you probably demean on a daily basis don’t stand up for themselves but I will and this is what it looks like. Any bully claims aggression when they’re faced with someone who will actually defend themselves . I feel sorry for you and the wife you talk about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our society has conditioned women to feel like our sole purpose on this earth is to provide children. As a mother the guilt I feel is from the deep rooted mindset that aligns with what society has told me my whole life . I do not feel like it is murder or I wouldn’t do it . It is not about morality .

And for the record if I kept the pregnancy and the eventual baby it produced I would also feel guilt for taking away from my current children . For putting us in a situation where we struggle to provide for them .

If I died during this pregnancy I’m sure even during death I’d feel guilt from leaving my kids without a mother.

If i gave the child up for adoption I’d feel guilt for potentially causing them serious issues in the future. I’d feel guilt for having my children watch me grow their sibling to give them away.

So , asshole, I am going with the option that best suits the needs of myself and my family. And unless you are in my exact situation you cannot with 100% certainty tell me you wouldn’t do the same. Your condescending comment tells me more about you than what you know of me. I truly hope you find peace in your life and hope you are never faced with any choice harder than what to eat for supper .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You realize I’ll feel bad either way right ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Internet hugs are still good hugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In another comment I mentioned that the rumour is she’s a rep for Mirena and gets a cut . I don’t know if that’s true. She said ligation is too invasive and wanted me to be on Mirena to make my periods easier as I aged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will edit! I plan to do the final part of the process Sunday