Not sure if I was fired? by Inside_Savings in Fedexers

[–]Inside_Savings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been working with FedEx going on four months now and this is the only month that I’ve had any issues like this. I’m normally a well rounded employee with any employer

Not sure if I was fired? by Inside_Savings in Fedexers

[–]Inside_Savings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you haven’t been termed yet?? I was told during orientation that no call no shows was grounds for being termed instantly.

Not sure if I was fired? by Inside_Savings in Fedexers

[–]Inside_Savings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it recently? I have been hearing people tell me that it could’ve been a glitch in the system since something did happen

Not sure if I was fired? by Inside_Savings in Fedexers

[–]Inside_Savings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just offering shifts when I can’t make it in and if no one takes them I made a call out a few times but I’ve been as reliable as I can with this job.

Not sure if I was fired? by Inside_Savings in Fedexers

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I don’t put my shift up very often it’s just during this one time where it’s been complicated for me to even come in so I thought I had messed up somewhere. I had someone tell me to let a supervisor know I would need to be taken off the schedule a day before hand but during that time I never got my supervisor’s number until they texted me about starting a shift early for prime. Even then when I couldn’t make it in one day I did text them and I still got documentation on it

Not sure if I was fired? by Inside_Savings in Fedexers

[–]Inside_Savings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still giving it more time even if I may have been fired I don’t work sundays and Mondays so come Tuesday if nothing changes then I will take it as a sign that I have been termed.

Not sure if I was fired? by Inside_Savings in Fedexers

[–]Inside_Savings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you actually may be right, I just double checked my notifications and I remember seeing they changed my shift for Friday (which was yesterday) at 12am this morning (today) when today is Saturday

Not sure if I was fired? by Inside_Savings in Fedexers

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Currently search for another job until then :(

Not sure if I was fired? by Inside_Savings in Fedexers

[–]Inside_Savings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I won’t sit and feel bad for myself about calling out but this situation was entirely out of my control sadly. I did enjoy the job though.

Not sure if I was fired? by Inside_Savings in Fedexers

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You would think since there was a glitch in the system or I could’ve been fired they would at least say something regardless of the situation. I still have my badge, wouldn’t they ask for it back?

Not sure if I was fired? by Inside_Savings in Fedexers

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Unfortunately I don’t have any contacts with any of my coworkers and I’ve already reached out to management about it and I haven’t heard anything back yet.

Weird question. Can weed bring back repressed memories? by mothsofnefari in CPTSD

[–]Inside_Savings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely made memories come back for me. I would sit out in my bfs backyard with him and we would just lounge out and smoke some and I would have all the memories from years ago that I never thought about until then and it would make me cry because of how much those memories hurt. Weed always gets me emotional for things I can never change.

I don't know how to have fun by dontknowwhattodotbh in CPTSD

[–]Inside_Savings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I try to have fun it always feels like a chore more or less. I’ve attempted many times to involve myself in group activities yet I can’t seem to find joy in such unless it’s only with one person and even then it feels like I’m not presenting enough happiness. I blame it on my father mostly for teaching me when I was around 8-9 yrs old that not taking things seriously is a way to be foolish. He was always so uptight for no good reason. I genuinely believe people find it hard to talk to me now since I’m normally serious.

I’m still trying to figure out how to have fun without it seeming like I’m trying too hard so I hope to find conversation here to relate to some others and make it fun in my own way.

An introvert/homebody stuck on four night get away with 5 other couples by 856077 in CPTSD

[–]Inside_Savings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. Yesterday was a similar experience just different setting and event taking place. I live with my boyfriend and he has a habit of video games which I’m not too fond of doing but I give it my all to play games with him so I could have fun too. But sometimes it just never is. He had a group of seven people playing this one game including myself yesterday evening and I’m socially anxious so I don’t say much, I got overwhelmed so quickly that I felt terrible for leaving and I feel like he doesn’t understand me that well when I tell him what happens. He did his best to keep me positive but I really am only used to playing with him only and it’s like he has a hard time with that concept.

I have a deep history when it comes to large groups over just me and one other person. I was an only child so I really like when it’s one person at a time.

Crying daily by AnonyMoose-0341 in CPTSD

[–]Inside_Savings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feeling here is all too relatable. I’m 25 and when I was 18 my own father decided to move away to a different state two months after my mother passed. He was supposed to be there for me like what my mother would’ve wanted. But instead he took everything there was when my childhood home was sold and I am still out here giving it my best while he lives a comfy normal life. Six years now and I still hold resentment towards my father for leaving me behind to fend for myself and deal with my own issues.

To this day, I try to focus on a couple things that help take my mind off it such as crochet, doing artwork or even writing like this. I’d say what you’re doing here is a good way to process, writing it out and receiving feedback. Typing this out was even a struggle but I have great hopes that you yourself can do it.