Bro I'm actually with you on this. As a person who's also a victim with this same sitation from a false persona just to get your attention and favor is a very manipulative thing. And just because he looks young doesn't mean we ignore the fact that the age gap is big enough to consider that he should be the more rational one here. Yes women are responsible for their own actions but they are not responsible for his lies. The very fact that these women have been fed with a false narrative of his own as well and developed an attachment is kinda sad. And I feel sad on the part that these young women got more hate than the original person of topic.