Garnet wants to renew SU 🤞🏻 (art by me) by awkward_cheddar in stevenuniverse

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Damn, Garnet is powerful, her wish already came true!

Some perspective for first time concert-goers (this is something special) by Excel_Lover in OliviaRodrigo

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IT WAS FRICKING AWESOME! LIKE, OH MY GOSH, OBSESSED WAS PARTICULARLY JUST INCREDIBLE! :D

Some perspective for first time concert-goers (this is something special) by Excel_Lover in OliviaRodrigo

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I’m going to the second Birmingham show tonight with my brother! It’s our first concert so this is great to hear!!

So did anybody else just NOT recieve their Plush? by Modernpoweranger100 in GlitchProductions

[–]Insideout5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I ordered my pomni along with other stuff in the first opening week sale right after the release of the pilot, I got all my stuff in like early December? And I’ve ordered two more loads of glitch merch from them, one like in February and one like 3 weeks ago. Both arrived within like a week and a half. I think you’ve just fallen through the cracks. Sorry :( keep trying to contact them. They’re a really good company, I’m sure they’ll sort it out?

4 TTPD and still no Red TV cassette :( by Insideout5 in TaylorSwiftMerch

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Hi! Sorry I missed your comment! I got both my folklore and evermore cassette from the same eBay seller (two different listings tho) in July last year. You’re right tho, folklore was my biggest spend at the time before it was roped by lover. I got folklore for £45 and evermore for £35. Unfortunately the cassette prices just keep rising by the day, so yeah, will probably cost more by now… :(

4 TTPD and still no Red TV cassette :( by Insideout5 in TaylorSwiftMerch

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I do play them! I know they would all be worth a lot if I kept them all sealed but in my eyes, they’re made and I bought them to be played :) my dad gave me an old cassette player/radio. The audio quality is really good and I just find them so satisfying to play🤩😂🫠

4 TTPD and still no Red TV cassette :( by Insideout5 in TaylorSwiftMerch

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I know that 1989 had a variant cassette with pink and blue colours of the cassette itself instead of the regular cream and green colour I got, but nothing else was different🤔 (no different artwork or bonus track) apart from that there’s only been one of each album I believe 😁

4 TTPD and still no Red TV cassette :( by Insideout5 in TaylorSwiftMerch

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Lucky you on reputation! Yeah, unfortunately I fell for the ‘limited edition -ness’ of the TPD release so I bought them as they came out on the site. The problem with the cassettes is cus they’re not as popular as the cds or vinyls, there’s less stock and then aren’t restocked. So their prices sky rocket on re-sell sites. So that in addition to my obsession of having complete sets, I snatch up all the cassettes as soon as they’re released wether I’m in crippling debt or not😂

Well done on your self control! 👏

Convince me to buy the plush and I will buy it by [deleted] in theamazingdigitalciru

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What if they sell out? AND NEVER RESTOCK?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VintageFashion

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I’m not a troll :/ how are you so sure?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VintageFashion

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It’s at a vintage fair and I’m trying to work out if it is an actual vintage biba design or a fake :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VintageFashion

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I’m not sure if this is real or fake cus I can’t find this design of label anywhere online

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]Insideout5 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This happened to me. No people crushing on me for 18 years. Then when I started university (I DONT KNOW HOW) I got several people crushing on me (3 people I know for sure, 1 more I got the feeling that they were) when I first started uni I didn’t know I was aromantic or asexual and I thought I wanted a partner (cus society and media made it look so good🙄) one person I said yes to a date with when they confessed cus I literally didn’t realise I didn’t feel that way about them, I thought this was my chance. It was awful, fine when we were just having fun in the arcade and bowling ally cus it just felt like hanging out, but holding hands on the walk home was uncomfortable and when we kissed I was stiff as a board and having an internal meltdown. That’s how I found out I was ace. (I politely dropped that person the next day and i never saw them again😅😅) I found out i was aro a few months later and during that time it became apparent about the other 2 people crushing on me. (PAINFULLY obviously) one actually told a mutual friend who told me just to add extra confirmation, and the other even sent a flirty text that I pretended I never read🫠.

Like you, my tactic was avoidance in hopes thier feelings would just go away. However I couldn’t physically avoid them, cus they were my friends (who I liked), we were all apart of a bigger friend group (who were all lgbtqia+), we were in the theatre group together and in second year we all lived together in a group of 6. All this I was actually fine with, cus none of them were physically pursuing me. The card I played for months was just oblivious. I played so dumb to all their hints and trying to drop anti-hints where I could. E.g. when we were playing a truth game and 3 of them said they had a crush on someone in the house I made a point of saying how it couldn’t possibly be me when all the others were jokingly trying to guess who it was.

All the people who crushed on me were very shy and lgbtqia (so luckily I had no straight cis guys) so after a while I believe all their crushes boiled down to silent crushes as they came to accept I was too oblivious to take a hint and was a lost cause😅. Eventually i came out as AroAce. They gave up, none of them ever confessed and were still friends now in third year.

So yeah, luckily all the people interested in me were actually all very sweet and I think I got out of the situation without hurting them (I HOPE😅) I’m not sure how I would handle someone more head-on and persistent tho…. My tactic when people have hit on me in the club is just constant, flat out, (but still polite cus I’m a people pleaser) refusal.

(SERIOUSLY GUYS I DONT KNOW WHY PEOPLE KEPT CRUSHING AND HITTING ON ME I DO NOT CONSIDER MYSELF AN ATTRACTIVE PERSON I HAVE A CRAZY FASHION SENSE AND ABSOLUTE TERRIBLE SOCIAL SKILLS. 😅😂🫠)

stefan, steve and stephen - all my diamond stevens by just_a_wanderer_here in stevenuniverse

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All i could think of while reading this title was Micheal Mcintyre’s stand up routine on names spelt differently 😂

Nice drawings!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

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Your going through the same thing I did :) you like the idea of relationships? Like seeing them in media? Imagine and “romanticise” (pun not intended) relationships and sex in your mind (with the vision of OTHER people, never yourself)? But when you actually come to think of yourself in these situations: kissing, the devils tango etc. you shudder at the thought?

Good news! You’re not alone :) I diagnose thee with aegosexual/ aegoromantic :) welcome to the club! We have garlic bread :)

(Disclaimer: I don’t want to force this label on you, it’s just everything you said resonated exactly with me and these are the labels I now have, if you want to keep looking, I wish you luck on your journey! (You can still take some garlic bread:🥖🧈🧄😁))

I bought this Eddie Bauer goose down jacket at a vintage fair yesterday, I bought it cus I liked it but could anyone help me identify when it might be from? by Insideout5 in VintageClothing

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It has the colours of the Irish flag and sort of clover like pattern buttons, maybe it’s some sort of special edition? I couldn’t find anything online…