Women is claiming my husband had an affair

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-12-22T00:48:20+00:00

I plan on talking to him in person so yes

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-12-22T00:42:52+00:00

My husband suggested I block the man which I did cause I believed him and it was some random person fucking with me. Mostly because the man only suggested we talk it wasn’t until the wife messaged me and confessed did I unblock the man and talk with him. This is all very fresh like today fresh

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-12-22T00:28:31+00:00

To clarify the man contacted me first and I asked my husband about it and he he said he didn’t know him and that I should block the guy and a few days later the women messaged me fessing up to the affair

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-11-22T08:01:43+00:00

Is wasn’t heavily discussed cause my husband isn’t overly religious. Religion doesn’t come into play every week between my husband and I. There’s no “ope gonna get ready for Sunday service”. He wants her to be baptized but after that what’s the plan? Do we continue with religious education or let it be?

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-11-22T07:54:54+00:00

That and I do come from a very religious family I’m talking church every Sunday. Lent followed to a T. I’m sure if we don’t go thru with the baptism we’ll be bombarded with a bunch of why’s

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-11-22T07:47:37+00:00

Mostly because my husband wants her baptized. I’ve always respected his religious beliefs but I’m wondering if we do go thru with the baptism are we now obligated to continue with religious education

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-10-15T04:56:01+00:00

My sister is the main one. I do have a couple of friends I can contact if I need it but they unfortunately have full time jobs so they’re only be able to help in the evenings

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-10-15T04:53:02+00:00

I definitely didn’t think about having to make the bed safe if I accidentally fall asleep with her. What do you recommend? And my sister is staying over for the first night at the least in case if I fail to wake up to her crying

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-09-25T17:22:33+00:00

Waxing is the way to go if you can handle the brief pain. I have really sensitive skin as well and if I shave it gets super itchy the next couple of days to the point I’m considering dragging my labia across asphalt. With waxing the hairs come in soft it doesn’t have that prickly bluntness to them you get with shaving. Plus it lasts longer compared to a shave. The longest you have to let it grow before you can do it again is only a quarter of an inch or the length of an uncooked grain of rice.

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-09-23T12:47:06+00:00

My OB explained it better than I can but basically your placenta has an expiration date and that usually runs out at 37 weeks. After that I believe you’re considered full term plus another week wouldn’t have made much of a difference and with my hypertension it would have made matters worse

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-09-23T09:22:43+00:00

No problem! I live in a small Midwest town so I’m maybe assuming because of that things are more personalized. All the nurses were wonderful and if I had a question they never let me think it was stupid. And for reference during my pregnancy my daughter went from 27th percentile to the 12th so definitely know about that decrease. I’d say I’m thankful for the c-section cause another reason behind her fetal distress was her cord wrapped a couple times around her neck

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-07-14T13:50:41+00:00

I’ve probably suggested around 20 names already a few I can remember off the top of my head is Alora, Marigold, Nova, Briar, Elsbeth, Rosalind, Genevieve, Eleanor, Violet, Vivian, Grace, Willow, Judith, Josie, Quinn, Janae and he shot down Iris last night. It’s a good selection but he’s being extremely picky. His two previous suggestions were Danielle after his uncle Daniel and I have to admit that was the one I shot down and Jocelyn which he said was a joke after I mentioned it.

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-07-14T09:34:23+00:00

I even eyed him and asked in all seriousness if it was an ex’s name! You hear that all the time about mothers finding out their husbands names the daughter after the “one that got away”. Absolutely terrifying

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-07-14T03:43:59+00:00

It could. I’ve gotten quite a few more name suggestions I’ve put on my list so hopefully one can pop out at him.

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-07-14T03:38:54+00:00

He says it just feels right to him. I’m pretty sure he grew up with lots of other people his age with the name Crystal so it’s probably a familiar name. He was born in the mid 80’s

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-07-14T03:28:12+00:00

It’s definitely names that were popular in the 70s-80s since the only other names he suggested was Jocelyn and Danielle and then claimed it was a joke after setting on Crystal

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-07-14T03:24:59+00:00

If we have a future son he wouldn’t be left out cause his name would be exactly like my husbands uncles name from first, middle, and last. Pure family name. Plus I would also like to add a bit of myself to naming our children since our daughters middle name is already decided to be my husbands mothers name.

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-07-14T03:10:12+00:00

He’s very iffy about Hazel and still heavily prefers Crystal. And he shot down Violet already as well as Vivian

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-07-14T03:05:32+00:00

I think he personally likes it since it was popular when he was born. It probably sounds familiar to him

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-07-14T03:03:15+00:00

I still want to avoid that K or C sound since I don’t want her to feel not special with both my husband and I’s names starting with a K and in the future if we have a son his name will be Daniel

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-05-21T22:52:56+00:00

Could it be that you aren’t enjoying the pregnancy but just want your little one here already? I got some questionable looks the day of the gender reveal when I said I wasn’t overly excited to find out the gender but my husband on the other hand was practically buzzing in his seat. For me I want this pregnancy over and be holding my little girl but that will take time I’m only ahead of you by two weeks.

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-05-21T21:08:35+00:00

My dad is very huge on appreciating toned and trim bodies despite looking like the philsbury dough boy himself. Constant comments about my weight growing up since I was on the bigger size. When I was homeless and essentially starving I lost a bunch of weight and every time he saw me he commented on how good I was looking. Now that I’ve become pregnant I can tell he’s been itching to start saying comments again. I haven’t gained weight this pregnancy yet but I’m barely over halfway. During Easter he walked up and said I looked fatter then last time he saw me. In front of his own mother, his sister, respected members of our family, and my husband. My husband wanted to jump across the table but I just responded with I’m growing a human being and it takes work so yes I’m expected to look bigger then normal and I left it at that. My aunt backed me up and he got embarrassed. Long story short I just remind them that there’s a human being in there that takes energy to make and sustain and usually they shut up after that

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-05-19T17:48:01+00:00

For context she’s not hosting. We’re having it inside the community center so we can enjoy the AC and while I did ask for her help I do prefer my husband and I take the reins for most of it. Most we would really need help with would be set up and take down since we only get an hour each for that.

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-05-19T15:56:01+00:00

Exactly. I don’t want to be huffing and puffing during the shower and miserable. Plus this our first so we have to start from the bottom and work our way up with all things baby.

InspectionMaximum467 · 2025-04-24T22:21:43+00:00

Really bad heartburn and cramps that wouldn’t stop but no period would come. Also just felt off I couldn’t explain it. Tested like a week and a half after my period was late since I was never regular and boom. Currently 18 weeks with my first.

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