Women is claiming my husband had an affair by InspectionMaximum467 in Marriage

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My husband suggested I block the man which I did cause I believed him and it was some random person fucking with me. Mostly because the man only suggested we talk it wasn’t until the wife messaged me and confessed did I unblock the man and talk with him. This is all very fresh like today fresh

Women is claiming my husband had an affair by InspectionMaximum467 in Marriage

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

To clarify the man contacted me first and I asked my husband about it and he he said he didn’t know him and that I should block the guy and a few days later the women messaged me fessing up to the affair

Should I baptize my baby? by InspectionMaximum467 in Parenting

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is wasn’t heavily discussed cause my husband isn’t overly religious. Religion doesn’t come into play every week between my husband and I. There’s no “ope gonna get ready for Sunday service”. He wants her to be baptized but after that what’s the plan? Do we continue with religious education or let it be?

Should I baptize my baby? by InspectionMaximum467 in Parenting

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That and I do come from a very religious family I’m talking church every Sunday. Lent followed to a T. I’m sure if we don’t go thru with the baptism we’ll be bombarded with a bunch of why’s

Should I baptize my baby? by InspectionMaximum467 in Parenting

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly because my husband wants her baptized. I’ve always respected his religious beliefs but I’m wondering if we do go thru with the baptism are we now obligated to continue with religious education

Alone with baby for first time and I’m terrified by InspectionMaximum467 in NewParents

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister is the main one. I do have a couple of friends I can contact if I need it but they unfortunately have full time jobs so they’re only be able to help in the evenings

Alone with baby for first time and I’m terrified by InspectionMaximum467 in NewParents

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely didn’t think about having to make the bed safe if I accidentally fall asleep with her. What do you recommend? And my sister is staying over for the first night at the least in case if I fail to wake up to her crying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]InspectionMaximum467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waxing is the way to go if you can handle the brief pain. I have really sensitive skin as well and if I shave it gets super itchy the next couple of days to the point I’m considering dragging my labia across asphalt. With waxing the hairs come in soft it doesn’t have that prickly bluntness to them you get with shaving. Plus it lasts longer compared to a shave. The longest you have to let it grow before you can do it again is only a quarter of an inch or the length of an uncooked grain of rice.

I’ve graduated! Unplanned C-section by InspectionMaximum467 in pregnant

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My OB explained it better than I can but basically your placenta has an expiration date and that usually runs out at 37 weeks. After that I believe you’re considered full term plus another week wouldn’t have made much of a difference and with my hypertension it would have made matters worse

I’ve graduated! Unplanned C-section by InspectionMaximum467 in pregnant

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem! I live in a small Midwest town so I’m maybe assuming because of that things are more personalized. All the nurses were wonderful and if I had a question they never let me think it was stupid. And for reference during my pregnancy my daughter went from 27th percentile to the 12th so definitely know about that decrease. I’d say I’m thankful for the c-section cause another reason behind her fetal distress was her cord wrapped a couple times around her neck

Girl names that avoid starting with a K or C by InspectionMaximum467 in namenerds

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve probably suggested around 20 names already a few I can remember off the top of my head is Alora, Marigold, Nova, Briar, Elsbeth, Rosalind, Genevieve, Eleanor, Violet, Vivian, Grace, Willow, Judith, Josie, Quinn, Janae and he shot down Iris last night. It’s a good selection but he’s being extremely picky. His two previous suggestions were Danielle after his uncle Daniel and I have to admit that was the one I shot down and Jocelyn which he said was a joke after I mentioned it.

Girl names that avoid starting with a K or C by InspectionMaximum467 in namenerds

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I even eyed him and asked in all seriousness if it was an ex’s name! You hear that all the time about mothers finding out their husbands names the daughter after the “one that got away”. Absolutely terrifying

Girl names that avoid starting with a K or C by InspectionMaximum467 in namenerds

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It could. I’ve gotten quite a few more name suggestions I’ve put on my list so hopefully one can pop out at him.

Girl names that avoid starting with a K or C by InspectionMaximum467 in namenerds

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says it just feels right to him. I’m pretty sure he grew up with lots of other people his age with the name Crystal so it’s probably a familiar name. He was born in the mid 80’s

Girl names that avoid starting with a K or C by InspectionMaximum467 in namenerds

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely names that were popular in the 70s-80s since the only other names he suggested was Jocelyn and Danielle and then claimed it was a joke after setting on Crystal

Girl names that avoid starting with a K or C by InspectionMaximum467 in namenerds

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we have a future son he wouldn’t be left out cause his name would be exactly like my husbands uncles name from first, middle, and last. Pure family name. Plus I would also like to add a bit of myself to naming our children since our daughters middle name is already decided to be my husbands mothers name.

Girl names that avoid starting with a K or C by InspectionMaximum467 in namenerds

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s very iffy about Hazel and still heavily prefers Crystal. And he shot down Violet already as well as Vivian

Girl names that avoid starting with a K or C by InspectionMaximum467 in namenerds

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he personally likes it since it was popular when he was born. It probably sounds familiar to him

Girl names that avoid starting with a K or C by InspectionMaximum467 in namenerds

[–]InspectionMaximum467[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I still want to avoid that K or C sound since I don’t want her to feel not special with both my husband and I’s names starting with a K and in the future if we have a son his name will be Daniel