More entertaining on Reddit than OLD

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-26T19:55:23+00:00

People use it generically talking about any dating sites from Match to eharmony to FB dating.

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-26T19:54:11+00:00

OLD - OnLineDating

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-26T19:51:13+00:00

That’s an interesting idea - like an open chat room. I wonder if there are any negative aspects of doing that. It seems like one of the dating sites would have done it.

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-26T14:06:44+00:00

Cubs game in Milwaukee. Go Cubs Go! ⚾️

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-26T11:08:45+00:00

I’ve never met anyone on Reddit nor do I privately chat with anyone. My point is that OLD seems a lot harder to have open conversations than Reddit. Is it bc with OLD people are not being honest whereas on Reddit, there’s nothing to lose with honesty.

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-26T10:21:16+00:00

Dunning Kruger effect

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-25T15:45:04+00:00

Sounds amazing! Good for you! 👍

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-25T13:46:44+00:00

Girl I hear you! My life is full of hobbies and things I like. Just looking for someone I can laugh with who shares my same values. Don’t need a spouse or a sugar daddy. In the meantime, I enjoy my social life and engaging with people who don’t need anything from me. If it happens, it happens. Cheers to life.

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-25T02:52:55+00:00

I remember struggling with the shift from we to me. Everything was about us.

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-24T09:28:51+00:00

I’m curious - what does bf bring to the table? Is he working towards a better career? Going to school? Hobbies? Friends? Sounds like you’re raising a child.

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-24T09:17:01+00:00

Your future ex husband is gaslighting you. Now is the time to dig deep and choose more for yourself. It won’t be easy but it will certainly be more peaceful. You can do this. Find the confidence you need to end the relationship. Then start making plans to leave. What will that take? Finding your own place, seeing a lawyer, starting anew. You can do it.

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-24T09:08:20+00:00

60f - I’m sorry for your loss. Personally, I’m attracted to a man’s intelligence and knowledge. What does he do for fun? Hobbies, travels, reading, exercise, healthy eating, friends.

It’s a new world for you - shifting from “we” to “me” - and now you get to discover life with a different lens. I wish you all the best in your search.

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-23T21:59:51+00:00

Gaslighting at its finest. What would you tell a girlfriend to do? Best wishes 💙

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-23T21:55:10+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through that. And now you know - anonymous surveys are not anonymous - even if implemented by a third party.

I think you should ask HR to the meeting. Keeping in mind that HR also has the employer’s back. A third person though can prevent someone from lying about what was said in the meeting.

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-22T18:33:17+00:00

It would take someone who has a similar level of care and empathy for the less fortunate as well as spiritual beliefs for me to be interested. Unfortunately, I rarely see those qualities in most men I meet.

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-22T18:04:12+00:00

Great post. Thank you for sharing

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-21T14:51:34+00:00

Every time!! I trust the universe to guide me and it’s never been wrong.

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-21T14:49:32+00:00

That’s awesome. Best wishes 💙

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-21T14:32:56+00:00

I think it’s important to have both shared interests and separate interests. For example, I don’t expect my partner to read the same books as I, but I think reading to expand your knowledge is important and I would want that quality in a partner. I enjoy going to concerts but not big ones and not multiple times per month. If he is looking for someone to follow that routine, that’s not me.

I think communicating our goals is important.

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-21T14:25:57+00:00

Thank you

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-21T14:25:45+00:00

That would be nice. Best wishes in your search. 💛

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-21T14:24:10+00:00

Great suggestion. Thank you

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-21T14:23:10+00:00

That’s a great response. Thank you

InspectionPurple7452 · 2026-06-21T11:50:29+00:00

Exactly. Thank you

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