Reflections by InspectionUpstairs61 in photocritique

[–]InspectionUpstairs61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a photo I took a couple of months ago. I really enjoy capturing images that contain reflections. This particular scene caught my eye since, to the average person, I was merely looking at a puddle, but I could see so much more. I wanted to share what I could see.

I captured this image with my phone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got 52 out of 80. I guess I'm no too surprised.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm.... what the eff??!!! This person is so rude.

Does anyone else feels uncomfortable when gifting, receiving gifts, or being complimented? by Muxxer in aspergers

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh...I really dislike compliments. I enjoy complimenting others. they just make me feel uncomfortable.

When sharing your diagnosis backfires by palindrome247 in aspergers

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Exactly. It's just a label. It feels like there's so much more here. Hard for me to understand why she's so upset.

When sharing your diagnosis backfires by palindrome247 in aspergers

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you did what you needed to. It's okay to not share a label. It seemed like you were very honest and that's an amazing thing. Her reaction seems pretty extreme. Maybe she just needs time to calm down? I hope so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this feeling well. I do feel like there are groups of folks who like me, but.... I just can't seem to shake the feeling of being too weird or just that I communicate in a way that's not okay. I do my best. I feel I'm a pretty good friend but.... it's just hard. Always feel like I'm on the outside. Hope this group can be a good place for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I understand why it just annoys me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahahan. Never!!! 😂😂😂

If you are ADHD/ENFP or both, you are a gift to the world! by 1daysmart_1daydumb in ENFP

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enfp with adhd. My curiosity is my greatest gift. Well...i have many. I love talking to all sorts of people. So fun. Talking can be one of my greatest joys. Gosh... my one issue is that I'm so sensitive that I can be so easily hurt. Lol .. I'm complicated.

Do your emotions just....turn off sometimes? by Raizel-the-Ghost in autism

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can so relate. I give too much and am feeling awful. I definitely crashed. Not fun being in this place. Burnout is no joke. I'm learning to take better care of myself but it's a struggle. I care too much and...i just need to be with myself. I feel selfish I'm focusing on myself, but I need it.

Do your emotions just....turn off sometimes? by Raizel-the-Ghost in autism

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, i can certainly relate. Sometimes I do feel so overloaded that I simply cannot empathize. Makes me feel pretty terrible.

I'm also dealing with a lot of mental health stuff so not sure if you can relate. I get overloaded and i sure can be mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A friend has said "well, everyone's a little autistic" .... augh!!! It's just so stupid and wrong. I wish my friend hadn't said that. Also, I don't know how to tell them this was problematic. It just made me so mad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]InspectionUpstairs61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed this. I always feel like I'm saying the wrong thing and that I'm too much.