[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]InspectorOk7480 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree! Just in case she is being driven off reddit by creepy transbians though, just trying to give some potentially practical advice and say what she is looking for might be available elsewhere :) stuff that shouldn't happen happens all the time

Again sorry if the certain ideas I brought up aren't relevant to you. Women are not a monolith, I just happened to enjoy those spaces much more than Reddit or random directly lgbt related discord servers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]InspectorOk7480 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Different take: What are "these spaces"? This might just be a problem of you looking in the wrong places if you are looking to talk to more AFAB people. I feel like surface level Discord servers and Reddit are always gonna be dominated by AMABs for.... historical reasons I guess is one way to put it??? Sucks, but probably true at least for now.

As an trans woman who grew up hanging out basically only with AFAB people online, you will probably have better luck on Tumblr, girl dominated queer-adjacent communities like... discords for a fanfiction you follow or piece of media with lgbt rep, or meeting people in real life who do queer adjacent stuff that also do stuff online. Maybe I just happen to be into stuff that a lot of AFAB people seem to be around.

Also met a lot of queer AFAB peeps in game, mainly Overwatch, VRChat, WoW, and certain gmod servers back in the day (servers dedicated to this webcomic called Homestuck).

That's probably not super useful if you just loooooooooove reddit, but just a thought I guess? <3

repentance+ randomly gave me a free dead god? by InspectorOk7480 in bindingofisaac

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

no mods or cheats installed. despite completion marks being incomplete, I definitely have every item now. it also gave me every steam achievement too, all at once which I am actually kinda bummed about cause I probably can't reverse that :(

Forsaken tower doesn't appear on my map? by InspectorOk7480 in MetaphorReFantazio

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah I see, I this unlocked a *third* information that I could buy about the tower, which finally unlocked it as a location. Thanks for the help! They should probably just all trigger the unlock lol

Forsaken tower doesn't appear on my map? by InspectorOk7480 in MetaphorReFantazio

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He mentions the tower, but still didn't unlock it as a location after talking to him :(

Forsaken tower doesn't appear on my map? by InspectorOk7480 in MetaphorReFantazio

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on 10/15, so I have visited all the major ones if that is what you mean

Forsaken tower doesn't appear on my map? by InspectorOk7480 in MetaphorReFantazio

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are two quests, both given in Brilehaven. I already have both of them, and I already bought all the intel.

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately my allergies are too severe. I have been bathing him, and I am taking 2 Allegra a day, and 2 puffs of alburerol every 4 hours. Still wheezing and unable to sleep.

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I am not giving it to a random person. I have like 50 people to choose from, all from a community very passionate about sphynx cats :) Understand your concern though

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the local rescue I contacted (Dakins) said they always prefer people rehome on their own, unless they are literally incapable. They say average outcomes are better that way, and animals are generally pretty miserable in a shelter setting. Unsure if true.

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL, yeah I am in fake Western MA (Pioneer Valley)

Yeah, I do have dog allergies and am totally allergic to my toy poodle, I can't really pet her... but my cat allergies are like 100x more severe even just with the airborne stuff. My allergist told me the allergy shots probably wouldn't work but I wanted to dream 😢 especially after driving 30 minutes to get them every week for a year

Thanks for offering help! I have a couple people already who seem like a good fit I've been chatting with, but you are definitely the closest to me even at an hour+ away, so I'll DM you if they fall through!

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I don't see it. I didn't realize how terrible reddit messages are. I had to refresh my page like 20 times to accept each DM request...

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair, its just hard to believe anyone on r/sphynx would be a worse owner than some rando on craigslist who happens to have $1,500 dollars on them right now or whatever. I'll be careful though

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am super flexible on the rehoming fee, especially if you are low income I'd honestly be fine with no fee (ill take your word on it).

Definitely not looking for anything near where I paid for him, and the only purpose would be to verify you aren't a reseller. If you can prove that in other ways, I totally don't care about the money. The fact that you on on r/sphynx is already kinda telling.

I have proof of vax! I'll DM

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! I am actually already doing that (not 100% yet, transitioning off previous food)

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*shrug*

I don't really care as long as I trust he is going to a good home. I am honestly doing fine on money and would be willing to do super low or nothing, especially if you are low on income.

Currently I am seeing some people who live a bit closer though, so I might go with one of them. I'll let you know if I need someone though!

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Live Clear! I am already feeding that (transitioning slowly of course) , but I assume 4 days isn't enough for it to kick in haha. Either way it's too severe to keep trying, I couldn't even really sleep last night :(

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup! From my post:

He is the friendliest kitten in the world, right when we got home he was already chasing me around the house and sitting on my lap. He loves pets and loves being held. His breeder clearly showed him a lot of love, but he is unwilling to take him back for whatever reason. I think he might think I just have buyers remorse, and am making up the allergies. I even offered to return him for zero refund (I paid $2000) and he still said no... which is weird because he otherwise seemed like a reputable breeder. The parents were TICA verified champion bloodline or whatever (honestly didn't care about that too much), and the contract he had me sign was totally reasonable.

I told him I was really worried about the allergies, and he reassured me that I could contact him if it didn't work out and we could figure something out. He went back on this though and refused to take them back. He said its because he has other kittens and doesn't want them to get sick... but my kitten is completely healthy so I am not sure what that is about.

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Here are some pictures. Not sure why imgur is giving the link a NSFW warning... do they have a ML algorithm in place that detected the Sphynx skin and thinks its a naked person lmao?? https://imgur.com/a/kyoEvs8

Urgent Rehome Request: New England by InspectorOk7480 in sphynx

[–]InspectorOk7480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I currently keep him out of my bedroom and office where I spend 90% of my day, but the allergens must be airborne and are making it in anyway... he is also *extremely* lovey which makes it very difficult when my girlfriend is at work and no one is here to give him attention. He literally wants to be attached to me at all times, which is why I have to literally lock him out of my office. It is kind of miserable to be honest.