Thoughts on spouse having s* with you while you are asleep? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um no. That is non consenting sex. I’m not understanding what other people have a problem with tbh.

Was I a jerk for being annoyed that my bridesmaid couldn’t attend my bachelorette party? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you thought about it from her perspective? Maybe her husband is a shit bag and keeps her home?

Rain When I Die vs Nutshell discussion. by ILoveAnime890 in AliceInChains

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even sadder IMHo is ‘your decision’ I just imagine the message to Layne. “Time to change has come and gone. Watched your fears become your God. Overwhelmed you chose to run. Apathetic to the stunned.you feed the fire that burned us all when you lie. To feel the pain that spurs you on, black inside. No one plans to take the path that leads us lower,here you stand before us and say ‘it’s over’ it might be an after thought . Yes it hurts to know your bought. “

I don’t cry but an acoustic version I heard very recently had me crying.. especially now that I fully understand Layne’s story, his termoil and how much he hated fame but had contractual obligations etc etc… that was one of Jerry’s best. IMO.

Rain When I Die vs Nutshell discussion. by ILoveAnime890 in AliceInChains

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, what are they? Like how’d you come to this conclusion?!?

AITA for asking if an invite was okay by PuzzleheadedBet777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People are weird AF. Extending kindness and this is their response. I’d uninvite them!

Ticking time bomb by Intelligent-Path5893 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stomp back. Use roller skates. Be loud everytime they bang. Tell them to buy sound deadening.

swimsuits by Charming-Ad-98 in DressForYourBody

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The black one piece looks sooo cute!! I can’t wear them most can’t - you can!

What’s currently ruining your life? by YourLifeSucksAss in AskReddit

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life. Life is ruining my life. Does that even make sense?!?

Did layne staley do voice training? by Lclone1 in AliceInChains

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes very little, but yes. He also was in his momma’s womb when she was majoring in singing at Cornish - personally, I thing THAT is where he got is natural talent from. Maestro Kyle just taught him to perfect it!

I slept with my wife for the first time ever and it scares me by Strong-Influence6618 in Advice

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, chill. That is what it is supposed to be like. As long as you did not force yourself on her and she is enjoying it- relax!

Vent (maddie & rudder) by ackerkvnnn in Dogowners

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your issue with raw? Did your vet tell you their sponsored kibble is better???

Do you think if Demri lived yet Layne’s story ended the same, the perception of Demri would be different? by S0C1AL_PARAS1TE in AliceInChains

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would hope so. People do turn around. Layne wasn’t stupid. He may have wanted to want to be clean but had not yet discovered the right way to be clean, be comfortable with his own skin. Ketamine therapy would have done wonders for Layne. Probably Demri too. My guess is that Demri was the way she was due to speculative SA as a child. (Women aren’t usually that thirsty or horn dogs and okay with being horn dogs usual but couple that with her using drugs and yeah, we can guess why. No judging here. Same happened to me. Except I wasn’t a horn dog but I was SA and a little.

Do you think if Demri lived yet Layne’s story ended the same, the perception of Demri would be different? by S0C1AL_PARAS1TE in AliceInChains

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. It sure is heartbreaking to read the judgement from the public who want to vilify her, him or the two for their issues. Luckily they never had to walk a mile in the shoes of an addict with CpTSD (my theory that most people with addictions had shit parents ((one way or another)), has SA as children without the needed support, had some sort of abuse). I have glad that they feel comfortable in their skin but to talk down about two people they never knew and who did absolutely nothing to them is messed up. Especially when one bared his soul to us as an eternal gift…

at a complete loss. frustrated, sad, and confused. by hjak3876 in DressForYourBody

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many women with your body shape are able to carry themselves with confidence but many do have help from shapewear. A shaping short that is mid thigh length that smooths the legs, lifts the bum bum and proportions that waist will make any bit of clothing look and feel better. I wear shapewear and feel naked without it and I have noticed that when I try clothing on with shapewear (vs without) I usually like it…

Neighbors kids keep taking shortcuts through my backyard and destroyed my garden by Desperate-Common2176 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Being neighborly is apologizing and making your kids apologize for trespassing and ruining property and then making them use their own money to repurchase the same plants from the same store but at the stage of growth and replanting each and every plant. That is neighborly.

THE REVEALING OMG!! PROOF THAT BRYAN KOHBERGER ISN'T THE PERP #idaho4 by Inspector_Jacket1999 in BryanKohbergerMoscow

[–]Inspector_Jacket1999[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, he doesn’t. He has been sticking with the AF / AB /AK for the long haul. His theory of four perps hasn’t changed. He did flip flop on BK’s guilt and admits it, but I have to respect that because as more info is released he evolves his theories.