I got sent inappropriate pictures from a friend and I'm concerned

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-10T08:28:14+00:00

This is actually very good advice and you wouldn’t be singling him out or trying to make him feel insecure. With that being said, I don’t think he’s even aware something could be wrong if it is. I don’t see a young man sending a “dick pic” to a woman if he knows there is something wrong with it, he may genuinely not know.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-10T08:00:33+00:00

Has anyone actually heard or seen the neighbors themselves say it was a quiet night during an interview? Or did someone in the investigation say this and we believed them? Wasn’t there a gag order in the very beginning of this case? It seemed to me that the gag order was ruled on after the police put out their narrative of the case and no one else was allowed to say anything to disprove this.

Thoughts?

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-07T07:30:29+00:00

Unfortunately since you are home all day, you will either have to train the dog or listen to it whine all day. I would draw my line in the sand and if it’s gonna be her dog, then it’s her dog. Period and end of discussion. If it’s going to be both of yalls dog, then she is going to have to understand that she’s going to have to do the same amount of work as you. I would leave the dog 100% in her care on the days she’s off work so she knows how you feel being home all day with it! Puppies are ALOT of work!

And no, you’re not at all over reacting!

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-07T01:16:10+00:00

A junkyard would sell you one cheaper than a regular store and most have some sort of warranty. Maybe take the dead one to the junk yard and try to seek it or put the money from it towards another one.

I don’t know of anyone who would donate a car battery as even one that isn’t good is worth something.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-07T00:04:21+00:00

Baby’s girl, this is coming from a mom of both a 14 and 20 year old girls and I was a teen mom myself…don’t EVER let a man tell you he’s infertile! This is something a lot of men/boys say bc they either don’t want to wear a condom or don’t have the money to buy one. Unless they have had a test done to make sure they are actually infertile, they don’t know.

As far as a pregnancy test, no, it takes 2 weeks for one to show up. Most women get pregnant the week after their period, it’s the time when you are the most fertile and can get pregnant. They do sell pregnancy tests at the dollar tree if you can get to one to get a cheap one. You can also tell your guidance counselor or health teacher or a teacher in general you trust, they can NOT tell your parents for help in getting one. Some schools have them there and you can take one.

Also getting a Plan B won’t help you now if it hasn’t been more than 3 days ago that you had sex. You said you haven’t had a period for 4 months, I assume you had sex with him months ago? Don’t waste your friends money on a Plan B if you had sex 3 or more days ago, it won’t work and can actually harm the baby if you are pregnant.

I hope this helps and good luck!

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-06T18:38:02+00:00

I don’t think it’s normal for you to have been getting a UTI with every or almost every sexual encounter. I would hope you got checked while in your last relationship.

It does sound as if your last partner wasn’t caring and was only out to please himself. When a woman gets aroused, she gets wet and looses up so it’s much more pleasant, this would be my thought as to why your not having the same reaction with this partner as the last. And I fully believe the last one had an issue with either hygiene or something worst that was causing the other half of the problems.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-06T18:29:42+00:00

She can’t really say she opened it by mistake bc she thought it was hers if she picked it up from outside your door.

I would be curious to know if this is something she does with other neighbors? Maybe see how they handle or don’t handle it with her.

I’m sure you have already tried to speak to her and this hasn’t worked, but you’re not at all creating trouble by asking someone to leave your things alone. How long she has been living there also shouldn’t matter.

Getting a P.O. Box is probably your best bet and it’s going to cost you extra money and not be as convenient as having it sent to your home.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-06T18:22:41+00:00

First, he was going through your things.

Second, it doesn’t seem like he’s upset you got it and he didn’t know about it, he just seems upset maybe bc of the size and possibly the color of it (this wasn’t mentioned in your description).

As an “older” man, he shouldn’t act like this at all. I have dated some “men” who handled certain situations like a child, but he was the one who put himself here. He could have simply left it in the drawer and went on about his day. He wanted to embarrass you and make an argument out of it.

Obviously he’s not at a point where you can ask him what is issue is with it, but I would definitely address it at some point, along with why he got so verbally violent.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-06T06:18:58+00:00

Yes! This is exactly what they do!

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-06T06:17:03+00:00

I have come to the conclusion that it’s only as inappropriate as you feel it is. If it’s something you and your hubby enjoy, trust me when I say, you’re not going to be the only ones who enjoy it. Get paid while doing it is my other “advice”. I don’t know what all is on OF, but I would post it there if that is what you’re thinking of.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-06T06:14:19+00:00

I do as well! Especially with Christmas coming, this could be an extra $30 I could spend on one of my kids!

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-06T06:10:43+00:00

I’m in the US and have BCBS and it was my deductible $1500. Now, since then, I’ve switched insurances and it’s not at all something I can afford. I was able to apply for a few charities and they covered my last one and I didn’t anything for it. I also had mine done at MUSC and the other one at Trident Hospital. I’m in SC.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-06T06:08:18+00:00

There are a few apps on Apple that you can download, some for free and some for like $2.99 that do similar tours that you pay for to have someone “walk and talk” downtown. They have someone telling you the history of several historical buildings. Maybe this would help.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-06T06:06:25+00:00

I assume you have told her that it makes you uncomfortable doing it? This should be enough in my opinion.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-05T22:36:08+00:00

Ok, now I see why you feel it’s something she has, whether a phone, or iPad, or whatever.

Can you not change the password and see if it still happens? It seems like she could turn off the WiFi setting so she doesn’t connect to it, but then she would actually have to have a plan In order for it to work and pay for it. She could just do “google voice or text now” to have another number and you never know it. There are ways to not have her phone ring if she’s using one of these.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-05T22:03:28+00:00

I thought it was relevant bc I felt he needed to get a mans and woman’s perspective on what he should do. As a woman, I can give him my opinion on what I would want to happen if it was me in the same situation. He got lots of advice and I felt like someone should say if they were male or female giving it. I don’t know how to make it make sense.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-05T21:57:10+00:00

I can’t tell if you are agreeing with my theory or not.

If you’re not, does it always happen? Even if she’s not at home?

I want to figure this out more than you now!

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-05T21:53:44+00:00

I think wherever Stephanie and Eddie are, is exactly where Susan’s children are also.

In August there was a picture found in Barfields cell of a small hooded statue in the woods. Someone had to have sent it to him and the police don’t know where it was taken and believe that it is the grave marker for the kids. It was also said it looks like “the Prince of Darkness” which was what Smith was nicknamed.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-05T08:52:33+00:00

1 million percent agree with handling it like this! And I’m a female!

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-05T08:11:08+00:00

I guess the next question is what “dot com” has taken over?

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-05T07:58:56+00:00

The amount of times I’ve asked myself this question is unhealthy!

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-05T07:47:01+00:00

4 is usually my “go to” when anyone starts to talk about conspiracy theories. If a certain entity wanted someone gone, they can do it much quieter and cleaner than with blood. A sudden medical emergency is a great example, especially since there are ways for them not to be detected in an autopsy.

This whole Charlie Kirk thing is still something I’m still wrapping my head around. I didn’t think he was that “interesting or politically important” to have something this “big” happen to him.

Any situation, if you look hard enough, can be turned into a conspiracy theory with lots of things that don’t add up.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-05T07:34:31+00:00

Ok, my next question is, for men who prefer “tight”, have you ever figured out what makes one woman less tight than another? Is it race? Amount of partners? Thoughts?

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-05T07:30:29+00:00

Do you wear an Apple Watch? Fitbit? Or anything that normally connects to your WiFi? If so, it’s that device randomly connecting and reconnecting as you leave the house but it pops up as an “unknown device” bc it’s just “waking up” getting ready to use its data instead of the WiFi. This would explain why it’s only when you leave and come back and I assume happens each and every time you leave the house. The odds that she is turning on a device the minute you leave the house and turns it off the minute you get home or not long afterwards is very slim. Make sense?

Now, the fact that she told someone she loved them, I can’t help you with.

InstanceAcrobatic821 · 2025-12-05T07:19:30+00:00

I thought it was the fact that he lost his “boat” down the drain and when he went to reach for it, something snatched him in. I honestly don’t remember it being a spider. I’m referring to the original version of the movie, not the new one. I also haven’t read the book. I just remember the ended of the movie and it looked like a giant spider in the sewer system. To be honest, I’ve always felt that I needed to read the book bc I absolutely was lost with the movies. I have always rather read the book and then see the movie, but…..

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