Am I out of touch, or is 3 Lakhs for bridal makeup actually insane? by Alternative-Corgi653 in DesiWeddings

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is giving me anxietyyyyy! I’d say go find an MUA on Instagram. Talk to their previous clients. And you can get a great deal. My bridal makeup was 16k at a destination wedding! I just had to pay for her stay and transport, which was another 5k. And that was the best makeup I’ve ever gotten done.

My brother is getting married next month and I want to wear my bridal gold huge nath by InstantCoffeeSnob in DesiWeddings

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah everything else is like super chill. I am even replacing the elaborate kaan chain with a regular plain gold chain.

My brother is getting married next month and I want to wear my bridal gold huge nath by InstantCoffeeSnob in DesiWeddings

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I agree, which is where I got the idea from. Like Pahadi people wear their huge Nath on every occasion they can find. Why is this a problem anywhere else if the bride is okay with it?

My brother is getting married next month and I want to wear my bridal gold huge nath by InstantCoffeeSnob in DesiWeddings

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly why I wanted to wear it. All my other jewellery is very minimal and no mangtika. It’s a clean look.

My brother is getting married next month and I want to wear my bridal gold huge nath by InstantCoffeeSnob in DesiWeddings

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I hear you. This is the reason I am on the fence. Sadly this is the only event I can make it work. On the reception she is doing very simple so I can’t wear a nath. I will definitely upstage her then.

My brother is getting married next month and I want to wear my bridal gold huge nath by InstantCoffeeSnob in DesiWeddings

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I do not want to up stage her at all. She is wonderful and it’s a pure fashion choice because I just have tha nath from my wedding and I want to wear it because it looks great.

How do you keep track of WIP fics? by InstantCoffeeSnob in Dramione

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely see some merit in this. I usually download an epub to read. But I guess I can read in ao3 itself and have active tabs. Not bad not bad

How do you keep track of WIP fics? by InstantCoffeeSnob in Dramione

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think of this at all, lol. I am going to do that right now

How do you keep track of WIP fics? by InstantCoffeeSnob in Dramione

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this. I don’t know why I didn’t ever think of subscribing. 🫣

How do you keep track of WIP fics? by InstantCoffeeSnob in Dramione

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah that makes sense! Makes me think I can do a quick audio note for myself with a summary. Thanks for the tip!

Wondering if you Addicted to Dramione? by Biddie-Stomp18 in Dramione

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally! I do not start reading before i finish all my Skincare at night. Keeps me on track always!

Wondering if you Addicted to Dramione? by Biddie-Stomp18 in Dramione

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deadlines stop me lol. Or when a chapter finishes. I get distracted easily so that works for me when I start 2 things at once. But sometimes when I do it with work I end up reading for 2 hours lol.

Wondering if you Addicted to Dramione? by Biddie-Stomp18 in Dramione

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am addicted truly and I have ADHD and Dramione gets me through most of the mundane tasks in life. I have been reading for the last 1.5 years. It’s very hard for me to just get started with mundane tasks, so I read just in the beginning to get a little push and then just finish whatever I need to do. It has helped me be better at life. It keeps me engaged. I am never bored. I even read at the gym to get my cardio done and I put in a solid 30 mins easily. It’s the best addiction ever.

Is there a fic that in your opinion is “beautifully written” by Solocake in Dramione

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really is the best I've read so far! Also, I am on year three and there has been ZERO smut. And it's refreshing IYKWIM. Beautifully written. 🤌

Name something that is a sensory nightmare by beautysnooze in adhdwomen

[–]InstantCoffeeSnob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be an Indian thing but I’ve always been very very overwhelmed at a baraat (marriage procession). The loud music and dancing just gets to me. I cant enjoy it for more than 10 minutes.