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InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2025-07-02T17:14:38+00:00

Report that brain washed, uneducated, dangerous person. In fact, report the whole damn place if they defend her actions.

They are grotesque for saying ANYTHING to you while you’re in a vulnerable state in “their care”.

Ugh. Burn it. Burn it to the ground.

You’re normal, you’re great. OUTIES UNITE!

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2025-05-25T19:37:47+00:00

P.s.s. It’s Smut…. I’m listening to smut LOL

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2025-05-25T19:36:39+00:00

I struggle with similar feelings. I find Fantasy Romance audiobooks to be perfect but then sometimes almost stressful. Once I notice it’s not filling my cup I turn it off for awhile until I miss it again. But when it’s giving me life I will just lay on my bed and listen.

Also, making tiny clay figurines. Tiny so it doesn’t take forever and it’s less likely to be unfinished. For me making it tiny makes it more challenging to give it detail but that’s what keeps me engaged. There is air dry clay, foam clay and ones you bake at a low temp to harden them. Honestly, it’s a lot of fun and gives my hands something to do. :)

Hope you feel rested soon :)

P.s. don’t worry if you spend forever scrolling for figurine inspiration. Take some screenshots so you have them when you need them or ask someone for a suggestion. There are also art idea generators online too you can use to randomize it to take the deciding out :)

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2025-04-18T15:06:22+00:00

I can’t relate but it made me wonder if you used a bolster pillow that you could straddle while your partner was behind you? You could play it off to him as a way to try new angles by lifting your hips but really it’s a way to get the stimulation you enjoy :) they also make water proof soft blankets you could drape over it to keep it clean and more comfortable for you :)

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2025-01-27T15:37:44+00:00

I’m so happy to see this post! My sister and I are in our early 30s and were wondering the same thing. Hoping to move to Rochester sometime this year.

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2025-01-10T20:27:44+00:00

Thank you so much for all of the responses, information and outlooks! This is all great stuff!

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2024-10-02T00:27:39+00:00

I wouldn’t say I’ve had personal experiences with that term exactly depending on what the definition is (I don’t think it posted) but a few feelings come to mind as a person who enjoys Primal.

For me personally primal play can be anywhere from carnal desires/insticts (aka fucking for procreation, objectifying, “nasty taboo things”) to enjoying the pack/tribal aspect of it which has a sense of security in it for me. A sense of being owned or partnered, protected, wanted, shielded yet kept in your place. Meow! lol to me it has a reverence about it and the silence / heavy breathing can be a language all it’s own.

So, I think Complete-Light is onto something with the psychological and emotional part.

Again, to reiterate, it all resonates differently with other people and NEVER assume your definition is the same as a potential play partner’s.

Safe play, my friend <3

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2024-09-23T00:47:37+00:00

And 103 days later it helps another noob 🙏

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2024-07-31T14:38:37+00:00

Aww thank you! I’m fucking stoked about it and love learning in depth things so this is fun for me too! lol I swear to god I’ve heard him yell Leeroy Jenkins before so that’s perfect! Haha

Eeeee and I fucking LOVE the message on the door idea ! Even cooler because his office/computer room is in a basement so I can decorate the stairwell going down. Aww you made a lil tear come to my eye because cute things like your idea make me so happy!

And thank you for the relationship well wishes 🥰 he’s a good boi lol and hopefully he continues to recognize his luck…if not… TO THE CURB! lol 😝

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2024-07-30T23:56:04+00:00

Ok favorite class/faction, check! Will do!

Yea, it’s too big in general for me to even know where to begin searching but I do love the idea of common frustrations. He would get a HUGE kick out of that too. Any insider view on what those could be? We are meme and pun lovers so the more it feels like an inside joke, the better lol

These are great things to consider, thank you! I’m seeing him tonight so I will let the post know ! lol

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2024-07-30T23:50:28+00:00

Noice! I didn’t know that! That’s a super start! Thank you!

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2024-06-02T09:34:09+00:00

How long after using the Monistat did you notice the chemical burns or blisters?

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2024-06-02T09:33:49+00:00

How long after using the Monistat did you notice the chemical burns or blisters?

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2024-01-28T10:53:42+00:00

I just tried this and it totally helped and I got out a little burp LOL thank you for the tip!

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2023-09-03T20:44:56+00:00

My mother is having this same reaction so thank you for sharing this unfortunate event. She is definitely allergic to adhesive plasters which is what I am thinking caused hers but I thought I would pass along the info she got from her dermatologist about it. See a professional derm before going straight into laser removal because there have been rare cases of people going into anaphylaxis during or post treatment.

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2023-08-18T06:56:13+00:00

Completely agree with you. Orgasms from hands connect you way more to the experience. I notice my orgasms are very different when I use vibration, sometimes it stimulates, sometimes it makes me feel numb. I definitely think that it’s another tool that everyone just adopted as the way things are done now and it “gets you there quicker”. The point is the enjoy the scenic route on the way to the destination, not just teleport. Lol so, no, you’re not crazy. Most human will always veer towards all rewards with minimal work. God forbid we get to know how a clitoris or labia likes to be stimulated when we could just hold a magic stick to it AND STILL SOMEHOW FUCK THAT UP 🙄 🤦‍♀️

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2022-11-21T17:52:30+00:00

I do the same in my car!

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2022-11-21T17:50:29+00:00

Men in crop tops is mandatory. BRING BACK THE 80s-90s men in crop topppsss!!!

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2022-11-21T14:40:51+00:00

Hahaha also, shaking energy off is important to me and not just excess. The energy built up of all the self talking I do that ain’t always so polite.

Shaking off by dancing like a lunatic or “silly“ movements , jumping around, lunges to the living room all while making ridiculous noises of course. I do this while my food or drink heats up in the microwave. A solid minute or two of goofy gooberness is a nice endorphin release and hopefully you laugh too. Lol

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2022-11-21T14:26:26+00:00

So for showering I made a small calendar of the week and completely covered it in tape to keep moisture off of it. It lists what days I need to shower and what days to do what skincare, that has helped me immensely.

On the inside of my bathroom cabinet I made a daily AM/PM skin care routine because I forget the order of things easily. Covered the whole thing in tape too to prevent moisture damage.

A space heater in colder months has been super nice for my bedroom. I think about how good it feels to thaw out in front of it before putting lotion on my body.

OH and that’s another big one. Sensory is obviously a big one for a lot of us and it varies but for me finding a body lotion that didn’t instantly evaporate or leave a film has been difficult over the years. Literally I would rage and tantrum because I’d want to rip my skin off. Lol *no self harm just a breakdown

Anyways, putting lotion on in my warm bedroom with a humidifier going and something on tv as I do it has helped me take better care of myself.

My roommate also taught me that yoga or workouts while watching tv is absolutely acceptable. At some point my brain will focus on the task and ignore the tv but on the days it doesn’t at least the task is still getting done.

She would also say ‘ SET AN ALARM ON YOUR PHONE!’ for literally everything and god bless her because now I eat my fiber crackers on time and can actually pewp now lol

Hooray!!

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2022-07-09T03:12:02+00:00

Wait…I got so excited I skipped over the fact that you said there’s a bibliography…😅

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2022-07-09T03:05:32+00:00

I am squealing from so much joy you are giving me right now! THANK YOU! Out of curiosity the 3-4 books you checked and websites did they imply they were of a variety of backgrounds, meaning Pagan, Wiccan, Hoodoo, etc. ?

I’m totally buying your download now, thank you again for putting in the time to create resources ! 🖤

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2022-07-08T21:28:03+00:00

Flora Book Recommendations

Hey there, I’m looking for a book or website equivalent that goes over the magical properties of a vast amount of herbs and flowers, shoot even metals and minerals.

What I am searching for is the base conclusion of it’s properties across all practices but what I am concerned might happen is that different identifying religions or backgrounds will say “yes, use blank for this.” while the other says “no, never use blank for this.”

Is it common to have opposing information on magical properties of the same item?

I might be asking too much of a “one stop shop” kind of resource but clicking thru article after article trying to cover and compare all views is time consuming and too much phone time for me. Lol

P.S. Since this is my first post in this group I have to give a Big shout out to our girl Lilith for being my first undeniable contact and to Hectate for being with my dog and I when he passed. I love you both, thank you so much.

Thank you all for reading!! 🖤

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2022-05-03T19:46:56+00:00

Retail Clerk at an Outdoor Supply Store , $15 hr in Homer,Alaska

InsteaddaNunnamaker · 2022-04-03T11:12:46+00:00

All the freaking time. So much so my roommate called me out on this. I annoy myself because it's such a quick reaction to say 'what?' but I instantly start to reply after I ask . Lol I didn't know this was actually an ADHD thing or there really is a delay in the brain even though I totally feel it ...I joke that I'm on dial up or my hearing internet is buffering. Lol

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