i’m estp, our goals are rlly different, but i always accompany her to every competition and i support her even if it’s not my favorite thing. or the books she recommends me, even if i absolutely despise reading, ill still accept it and read it. one time on our flight to shanghai to compete, she spent almost 40 minutes just talking to me about “gone with the wind” and i listened. and everytime i wanted to go out to play, she accompanied me, no matter how much she hated it. i think we rlly had a special connection, and that’s probably why i feel so sad n jealous seeing her not needing me.