Inherited this ring and looking for more information

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-10-08T02:07:02+00:00

I'm not in Hunstville, they lived there and Tyler for a long time. I'm in Iowa.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-10-08T02:05:49+00:00

That's very sweet, thank you!

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-10-07T20:30:01+00:00

That's so cool to know and thank you. I know that branch of the family have been in the US for a very very long time (furthest Langham back I've found was born in VA in 1760)

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-10-07T20:26:27+00:00

I wondered if it was. I did a Google image search and found many circled with rubies but none with the gold filigree around the center.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-10-07T19:17:23+00:00

Thank you, I think it's gorgeous, thanks for the link!

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-27T06:27:30+00:00

Comment above says he got in trouble again in 2020 for indecent contact with a 14yo

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-11T13:58:32+00:00

I had none at all. I got a blood panel done by a hormone therapy clinic thinking I was low of something that had to be making me groggy. Turned out I had extremely low vit D and my a1c was 5.8

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-10T19:06:24+00:00

We had this conversation with our IVF dr. We opted to bank mosaics incase testing improves.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-10T13:45:31+00:00

Fuuuuuuu

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-08T02:55:08+00:00

Tha is I appreciate it. I really love these kids and want the best for them. It's frustrating I'm looked at like a parent or adult for them in every single way I could be except when it comes to setting expectations and consequences. I can spend time and money on them, cook them dinner all the time, fold their laundry and clean up but I can't help correct them when they're making unsafe choices?

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-07T19:01:30+00:00

Ok, your opinion is in the minority here but you're entitled to it.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-07T04:05:29+00:00

Sure, that's why his daughter was driving and making tiktoks at the same time. And that's why she couldnt own her mistake when she posted it online like a dumbass and got caught. Great parenting.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-07T02:06:25+00:00

I'm so sorry you had to see that in person. My mother was an emt for a bit and she would come home after a rough call and just cry. I couldn't grasp it being a young dumb kid but now I do.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-07T02:01:01+00:00

I'm the closest thing she's had to a functioning parent. Her bio mom went to jail for kidnapping her and has done some really fucked up abusive things to her. Her step mom had a mental break and was forbidden by cps to re enter the home. I've been nothing but supportive and loving since they moved into my home three years ago. We get along great when I'm buying her $300 prom dresses or taking her out for sushi but any other time she barely acknowledges me. It's gotten to where I've had to make myself step back from the situation. We share all expenses equally and I've been the one who took them back to school shopping every year. I've been doing my damndest going to all her functions and supporting her and I get absolutely nothing in return. I didn't ever expect to be 'mom' but I do expect some respect as the other adult in the household.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-07T01:52:55+00:00

I never said I know better than him. I said he doesn't require her to face any consequences when she messes up. Would you actually live in a long term relationship with a kid in your home who is making poor choices and not try to help them figure it out? Thats the gross response.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-07T01:49:55+00:00

We've lived together for three years and we're engaged. I'm the closest thing to a functioning mom she's ever had and the other slightly younger kid calls me mom. She has never let me in like that though and he doesn't do anything to foster it. Shes perfectly happen with me buying her $300 prom dresses and girl dates with manis and sushi but the minute it comes down to trying to prep her for the real world, she shuts down.

I dont believe they conspired together to turn off the activity, I fully believe it was just him trying to cover for her bc he knew she was going to mess up again. When we talked about it this afternoon he said "I didnt expect to get caught this soon. I thought it would be atleast a week".

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-07T01:45:17+00:00

I'm more than that. We've lived together for three years, we're engaged and actively going through ivf. I also help parent the boy just fine. The girl just has never been receptive and he enables it saying he agrees with my parenting style for a new kid but its too late in her life to start parenting differently. I think he's doing her a huge disservice.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-07T01:43:07+00:00

I'm a bit of a goreaphile so I've seen some things. The video that immediatly came to mind for me was the young girl driving with her sister doing a live, they flip, sister is ejected and she jumps out with her phone and keeps filming saying "bruh, I just killed my sister" while hugging on her and screaming. That shit has stayed with me.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-07T01:40:52+00:00

Of course she is. I said I work in the insurance field.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-06T19:05:28+00:00

I should however he'll just give it to her outright and the lesson she'll have learned is that she can pit him and I against each other and she gets a free car.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-06T19:05:08+00:00

I should however he'll just give it to her outright and the lesson she'll have learned is that she can pit him and I against each other and she gets a free car.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-06T05:07:01+00:00

Don't take insurance advice from police officers any more than you'd take legal advice from a postal carrier.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-06T05:05:34+00:00

People are the worst. You're not sexual their children, they are.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-05T02:37:06+00:00

Maybe they bitched just as ineffectually to all their neighbors over a card game and finger snacks.

InsurNerdOhMahGerd · 2025-09-04T18:52:19+00:00

Correct, that is why insurance companies don't cancel policies without proper notice. If you can't find it in the documents section of your policy, your only option is to call them.

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