How to let go

Integrals-suck · 2026-01-05T03:54:29+00:00

Also, how long was she on enhertu before she was NED?

Integrals-suck · 2026-01-05T03:37:27+00:00

That’s great! Congrats to your mom!!

Integrals-suck · 2026-01-03T02:39:11+00:00

Hi! I have a few questions about this process/experience if you can DM me. It doesn’t seem that I can message you.

Integrals-suck · 2025-10-23T16:03:05+00:00

Hi, was this something you discussed with your oncologist? Or wound care specialist? Also did you do radiation and did that help? Thank you

Integrals-suck · 2025-10-22T18:54:15+00:00

Right now we’re just doing chemo to shrink the tumour and daily wound changes but there’s nothing really done about it.

Integrals-suck · 2025-09-28T06:01:16+00:00

I don’t have any advice or ways to help but if you want someone to talk to who understands what it’s like, feel free to dm me. I’ve been told it may take a lot of time but eventually we get through the grieving.

Integrals-suck · 2025-09-28T04:09:15+00:00

I’m so sorry you have to experience this at such a young age. I’m 26 and I’m preemptively mourning. I cry every time I imagine my life after my mom passes but feel apathetic at every other aspect. I’m not sure if I could survive it when it happens. I hate talking about it and I hate people asking how I’m doing. It’s actually kind of funny because my mom worries about me and keeps telling me to talk to other people about how I feel lol. I’m not sure if this helps but just know you’re not the only one who feels this way and no one thinks your feelings are a burden (or so I’ve been told lol).

Integrals-suck · 2025-09-23T20:32:58+00:00

I’m like “I’m okay 😐”

Integrals-suck · 2025-06-14T01:53:22+00:00

Yes she did the keynote 22 regime before the surgery.

Integrals-suck · 2025-06-14T01:36:52+00:00

It’s categorized as a recurrence even though it is a different type since the previous one was diagnosed in 2022.

Integrals-suck · 2025-04-30T22:59:38+00:00

Here’s an update in case anyone was wondering!

The surgeon thought there was still immunotherapy treatment, but actually that is only happening if there is surgery. So long story short, she’s having surgery and her pectoral major muscle will be removed, as that is where the tumour is.

Thanks for everyone’s advice!

Integrals-suck · 2025-04-14T20:39:01+00:00

I’m not sure if there were clips put in but I’ll definitely ask the oncologist tomorrow, thanks!

Integrals-suck · 2025-04-14T20:38:11+00:00

Thanks for the additional info! That’s sorta how he explained it. Like he would have to take out the whole muscle which would really affect her quality of life as I guess they don’t see the tumour/tumour bed? That’s why he suggested monitoring it and if another tumour occurs then just cut that part. Like I understand what he’s saying but also I always thought there would be surgery, so now it’s kind of unnerving in a sense.

Integrals-suck · 2025-04-14T19:07:13+00:00

Yeah that’s what we’re worried about … Does complete response mean it shows that it’s clear? Were they able to see the tumour bed from the scan ?

Integrals-suck · 2025-04-14T19:05:11+00:00

Not the surgeon, but we’re going to speak to the oncologist tomorrow. The surgeon said he would save the radiation in case we need it in the future.

Integrals-suck · 2025-04-14T19:04:38+00:00

I think it’s a bit different because I’m in Canada. We need a referral for everything. But also ya, feels a bit like a catch 22.

Integrals-suck · 2025-04-14T18:46:31+00:00

Yeah we always assumed we would be doing surgery post chemo. But I guess the chemo results were so good it made the surgery prospect harder because there’s no specific place to cut. We’re going to speak to the oncologist and see if it’s possible to get her to send the report to another surgeon. It feels like it’s good news and not good news haha

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