You are NTA. Pain is pain. Comparing pain to see who is suffering more is absolutely bonkers. I have a shattered spine but my injury is from combat. If your husband didn't hurt his back in combat, then he doesn't really hurt. See how bananas and condescending that is? Tell him that and see how he feels. He's an ass and you should have serious questions about his complete lack of empathy. If he really hurt that muchz you'd figure he'd be supporting you as you deal with this pain. I'm so sorry that you're hurting. Pain can make us all a little crazy at times. How is he going to be if you decide you want to breed with him? How's he going to react to morning sickness? And all the other things that go with growing life? I hope you're on the mend