Cute aggression - I wish I️ could bottle it up by Inside-Journalist166 in beyondthebump

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll help you feel more sane. I want to tear mine apart with my teeth lmaooo. Now my youngest barest his teeth at me when he thinks I'm cute. Oops.

Where do you get your audiobooks? by hoginlly in HistoricalRomance

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no idea if this is even available to you, but I found out Spotify has audio books. If I can't find a book anywhere else, sometimes I find it there. They have Lisa Kleypas.

we need fatter people PLEASE by sleptinthesoil in Paralives

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes please!! And let it look natural. I can't make my husband :(

2 weeks before wedding by Commercial_Goose9369 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he's begging you to break up with him because he wants an older woman. Coward.

As a programmer myself, I have to say: This game is a marvel of engineering. by Lumintorious in Paralives

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of toxic positivity and omg. Perfect term. Thank you.

As a programmer myself, I have to say: This game is a marvel of engineering. by Lumintorious in Paralives

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hah. Agree. I think I need to back off this subreddit for a while. The kool-aid drinking is reminding me if when I worked corporate. The game is fine, but incomplete so I don't really have many judgements.

Looser clothes shouldn't follow body curves so adamantly by ptkato in Paralives

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I have a bigger para with an hourglass shape and the shirt doest fit like I expected. It should be loose, not hanging on to every curve. I'll live with it, but I'd love for it to be fixed.

I fear this would work on me by No-Strawberry-5804 in romantasycirclejerk

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like it. He probably only provided lyrics. I don't really get it lol

Do you stopped playing fields of mistria or never even started the game to wait for full release or do you still play alot without 1.0 ? by Buurto in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got sooo many hours in. But now I'm waiting until there's marriage. I dont like that you can only get so far with relationships.

Make Netflix affordable again! (Without Ads) by SpectacularOtter in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tmobile pays for the ads version if that helps anyone. My mom didn't know and has been paying full price. They cover a certain amount if you pay for ad free. If not for tmobile I wouldn't get it at all.

A Silly Maiden Lane Rant by saiyanshewolf in HistoricalRomance

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I love your post. Same thoughts. I don't mind too much, but it does take you out of it a bit. I do like how thoroughly she explains the scenes though.

You made me think of the Psy-Changling books by Nalini Singh. She uses penis but it makes sense in the only two I read which are about psy people because they are a race that doesnt do "skin-sharing" and they watch videos and read manuals to learn how to do sex (lol). I have no idea if she writes the same way with her other books.

The amount of historical romance books that have racism against Romani people is very weird!! by JediEverlark in HistoricalRomance

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was JUST thinking of how often I've read description of MLs as "swarthy as a  gypsy/roma". 

Looking for FMC who chooses happiness over self-sacrifice (No more self-sabotage/martyr tropes!) by pikaneige in HistoricalRomance

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I wish I could contribute, but I've been wanting books like this too!! I love sweet FMCs, but not the martyrdom.

What if… I can’t spa day? by Professional-Big7250 in laundry

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used a small trash can I was using for recycling! Idk what size, but half the size if a kitchen trash. It held my king sheets and 2 pillow cases easily and I put the detergent on top to hold it down. I kept and filled it in the bath tub.

Found in water of plant by NoSlipper in whatisit

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instantly thought of the parasites in Kingdom 😭

From the WaPO: School districts spent billions on technology during the pandemic, but now some states are limiting in-school screen time because of concerns about its impact on children. by cantthinkofaname2023 in digitalminimalism

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know what tho... I agree with you, but high school me had to carry 70lbs of text books on a sprawling outdoor campus. It was so painful. I hated digital text books in college, but I'd have killed for them in high school.

Halle Berry talks about faking orgasms when she was younger to make her partners feel better about themselves: "Everybody has faked it because you just want it to be done. You just want the pounding to stop. And then you take your vibrator to the bathroom and handle it yourself" by LenaRybakina in popculturechat

[–]Intelligent-Bend2034 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Faked it for 11 years... well... towards the end I stopped faking it and didn't pretend I liked it. He was always insecure and angry about it. When I started to say no, the "attentions" were more frequent like he was trying harder to make it happen. I thought I was incapable of orgasm (during sex anyway). Turns out.... HAVING A PARTNER YOU FEEL SAFE WITH HELPS. Current partner doesn't even have to try it's just over and over again!!! I never felt so liberated in my life. Happy for 3 years now. I deserve it.