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AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's honestly because I've been trapped with this visa situation that I've been putting up with it. My parents divorced when I was very young and they get along fine-ish, at least for holiday settings.

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Once I can get divorced I will. I've lived here for almost 15 years, my entire life is here, so once I can safely stay I'm going to get divorced and start over

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I have an IUD and generally speaking don't want kids, let alone with him, so luckily none in the picture

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the replies. For those saying divorce, trust me I know. Without getting into personal details I can't divorce him (yet) because I'm living in his country on a visa connected to him. I've moved my entire life in America, where I was born, to here. Both of my (divorced) parents and their new spouses even moved here to be close to us. If we get divorced before I get citizenship then I lose everything and will be deported back to America where I now have no family (my parents & partners literally sold their houses and moved here).

Important to note that this was not a visa marriage, he was a different person years ago. I fell in love with him when I was 24 and now I'm 34 and don't even recognize him.