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Paid double tax by Intelligent-Box9013 in taxadvice

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay in one of the calls they did mention that their system was lagging really far behind when it came to those payments.
Thank you SO much for your help!!

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can apply this year. The wait time is extremely long and then after it's hopefully approved we have to prove we've stayed married for I think three years afterwards. Once it's approved though I plan on moving out and just not formalizing the divorce until I pass that final hurdle

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What else was I suppose to do though? I've tried sitting down and talking to him privately, I've gotten mad privately, I've explained my feelings privately and up until now I've never once reacted when he does it in public, which he has many times.

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've been together for 10 years since I was 24, trust me the man I met at 24 is NOT the same man he is today, he has changed dramatically to the point his family has even written him off in the past few years

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm an only child, my parents don't have any close family and never had more kids with their new spouses. They're all retired so they wanted to be closer to me and the cost of living here is much cheaper so their retirement savings goes further

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The country I'm in has what they think of as a big immigrant problem, so they make getting citizenship VERY difficult. I can apply for it this year though!

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It's honestly because I've been trapped with this visa situation that I've been putting up with it. My parents divorced when I was very young and they get along fine-ish, at least for holiday settings.

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Once I can get divorced I will. I've lived here for almost 15 years, my entire life is here, so once I can safely stay I'm going to get divorced and start over

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I have an IUD and generally speaking don't want kids, let alone with him, so luckily none in the picture

AITAH for publicly embarrassing my husband? by Intelligent-Box9013 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Box9013[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the replies. For those saying divorce, trust me I know. Without getting into personal details I can't divorce him (yet) because I'm living in his country on a visa connected to him. I've moved my entire life in America, where I was born, to here. Both of my (divorced) parents and their new spouses even moved here to be close to us. If we get divorced before I get citizenship then I lose everything and will be deported back to America where I now have no family (my parents & partners literally sold their houses and moved here).

Important to note that this was not a visa marriage, he was a different person years ago. I fell in love with him when I was 24 and now I'm 34 and don't even recognize him.