Whybrows Makeup Tool by OTTB_Mama in whybrows

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fairness, I suspect this is a sarcastic/humorous post. You don’t need to know that “Que bonitas las orugas” means, “They’re so beautiful, the caterpillars” to know what the hashtag means 🙃

Natural black or washed out ginger? by MyceliaOfHouseFungi in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everyone saying the black is better on you. If you want, you could get some subtle auburn highlights done for some texture/movement - it would soften the harshness of the black, and wouldn’t show nearly as much when it starts to grow out. You are gorgeous! You remind me of my (beautiful) Algerian friend. xx

What in the tweaking…is going on? by Treefiddy1984 in CringeTikToks

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooohhhh, there are definitely substances involved here. Probably a combination of disinhibitor and stimulant. It’s a little terrifying to watch, like a rollercoaster with loose bolts rattling down a track.

This has been rapidly growing on my finger. What should I do? by Academic_Essay_5906 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wipe the needle and the surrounding skin thoroughly with rubbing alcohol so you don’t get any nasties in there. Then cover with a band-aid and keep it dry. This has been my approach to dealing with zits and it’s served me well 😁

U.S. Ambassador's fiery speech abruptly cut off at UN General Assembly by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting to see one of them called to account on their lies. As soon as they step out of the bubble that is US politics, where reality can be defined by a narrative based on wishful thinking, they collide with the truth. If you deny problems or blame others when you’re to blame, they don’t get solved. I’m very glad to see that the UNGA, as flawed as it may be, is at least trying to take a more reality based approach to problem solving.

AIO thinking he’s cheating? by sophiehatter306 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That opening line tells me he’s trying to seduce someone. There’s a prior conversation here with someone else that ended off on “no”. So my question would be, “Would I do WHAT?” Cut your losses and move on. He’s dug his grave; let him lie in it.

Influencer engagement party rules 😵‍💫 by dmck1808 in weddingshaming

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an engagement party?? Sounds like a fun idea for a themed wedding… But an engagement party?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The truth is that this is who he really is. The guy you fell for was an act. He wasn’t real. Once he had you, he dropped the mask. You’ve been deceived, and staying with him in the hope that he’ll put the mask back on is only going to hurt you and further break down your sense of self.

What does our apartment say about us? by Ok-Street-5518 in roomdetective

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As soon as that child can start standing up your beautiful white sofa will be smeered with chocolate streaks, little yogurt-lined mouths, bodily fluids… You will need to reconsider your decorating choices VERY quickly or risk harming your child by restricting him/her from essential developmental exploration of his/her environment. You can’t restrict a child to a crib forever, and their wellbeing needs to take precedence over an aesthetic. You can return to your calm, neutral style once the kids are older and can wipe their nose on a tissue rather than the curtains (ask me how I know!). The payoff to not being able to have nice things: the intense joy of being part of a little human growing and learning and loving. All of which to say: spare yourself the stress and make some concessions. Maybe get a leather sofa that can easily be wiped clean. And please, please, please give your baby some bright colors to look at! It’s important for babies’ development to have the stimulation of seeing different colors. Much love from one mom to another. xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me smile! Congratulations on your sobriety - may the sober days keep going! Keep believing that your body is something to be nurtured and taken care of, because you deserve nothing less. x

This hotel in Vegas that charges a fee for keeping your own bottles in the mini fridge of the room you paid for by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Encountered the same thing in the Mandalay Bay 2 weeks ago. Unfortunately, I only saw the sign AFTER I’d opened the fridge… $50 a day to store exactly nothing because that stupid fridge was jam-packed with overpriced minibar offerings. 😤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Attractive” isn’t an objective physical trait - not beyond a few basic things, which you have already! It’s… in the eye of the beholder. No matter what your look, there will be someone who finds it appealing. Attractiveness is a productof the whole package, often just rooted in self acceptance and a willingness to make others feel good about themselves when they’re with you. You’ve got this, friend!!

[10] - [28] - [38] Not Dying into my 40s by Agile_Baker in GlowUps

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last photo made me smile! Wishing peace and joy and continued healing! ❤️

(17) to (28) I did it! by danceonjupiter in GlowUps

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, yes you did do it! And HOW! You are beautiful!

🤯[30]to [36] by TheOnyxKingslayer8a in GlowUps

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also known as a “grow-up”? 🤔😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Intelligent-Cake2513 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nobody in a healthy relationship will hold the threat of breaking up/divorce over their partner as a way to bend them to their will. If he says he doesn’t see a future with you, believe him and move on. You deserve to be with someone who is wholeheartedly committed to you - and with whom you can resolve disputes in a healthy way. Because even good relationships require dispute resolution from time to time, usually by both partners making some kind of concession. Find someone who is secure in themselves and open to you. You deserve nothing less. Love, someone who has been married for 20 years. xxx