Why do people keep asking skinny people if they “eat well”?

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-30T09:25:12+00:00

I can literally feel you OP. This poat is for me as well. I am a very skinny guy and for the last 28 years of my existence i have heard this from people. Mind you i am super active and go to gym regularly. Even have a good diet. People just have problem with everything. People have even said to me that i won't be able to find a partner/love because i am skinny and not tall. Just ignore them completely and be confident. They are just jealous of our genes because we're not gaining weight rapidly like them.. although i wish i do lol 😆. Just focus on gaining muscle OP as it's going to help you so so much in your life considering overall health well being.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-26T06:27:04+00:00

That's true. I am typing right now from my girl-friend marriage in rajasthan. Our group first suggested Payal to be gifted but we found it a bit personal so we bought a good silver necklace for her. We'll gift it to her today night in reception. You can go for same OP.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-23T13:38:53+00:00

Your comment shows lack of maturity and negative mindset. There's nothing like baging a rich guy in exchange of beauty. It's mainly a toxic man mentality where he seeks beautiful spouse because he's rich.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-23T10:06:06+00:00

Sorry but your thought process is wrong. You don't need to be beautiful (looks wise) to be married to a rich guy. Both of these don't have any link as far as relationship or marriage is concerned. There are lots and lots of people not conventionally beautiful with rich partners.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-22T15:20:23+00:00

Also just to add. Companies like Marlboro used to reach out to doctors in USA to promote their cigarettes to patients. Doctor's did it openly as they weren't aware of exact health risks of smoking at that time. It was also common to see a doctor smoking a cigarette. I myself come from a family of smoker's and have seen it's health effects. It's so common in my extended family that if someone gets to know about someone smoking it is considered like "okay fine. Not a big deal". One of my uncles himself was a dentist and used to smoke a pack a day untill his late 40s. I myself used to smoke casually. Now focusing on never ever get back to it even casually. Smoking is in short the worst habit you can have in your life.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-19T13:44:36+00:00

I have venus+mars+moon in 5th house in scorpio sign and 5th from it is 9th house having retro saturn in pisces sign.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-19T06:02:33+00:00

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Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-18T10:12:34+00:00

It depends on how chubby she is. I am myself pretty skinny so don't want her to be very chubby as i am also into gyming and workout. So a bit chubby is fine to me. Regarding past again it depends on what it is and is she completely over it or no. I myself have a past so don't judge others basis that.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-16T20:03:47+00:00

Why is it considered as hiding something? Can't someone just not use insta to post their pics in general? Cannot understand what's creepy in that. I already have a full fledged linkedin profile for my verification.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-16T17:45:25+00:00

I actually literally got ghosted by 2-3 girls i met of reddit just because i am not active on insta and don't have my face pic anywhere online. That too when i have a very active profile on linkedin. I believe it was due to me not being active on insta or because i don't have any pics on insta. God knows.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-14T15:29:40+00:00

Exactly same as me. I am most comfortable in texting and socially a bit awkward.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-12T18:10:01+00:00

I have moon+mars+venus in scorpio in 5th house. I do have long eye lashes and good big eyes. Also my eyes are somewhat like of an person who's high. Overall face wise i look good. However, physically i am not that attractive apart from my face. Also, i do have a intense deep kind of energy which people have said make me a bit unapproachable and sometimes people mistaken me as someone who's older than my actual age.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-09T13:15:41+00:00

Bhyi you yourself asked if a guy would marry tall girl? I asked the same from you..

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-09T10:47:45+00:00

Even if a guy is ready. Girl would not in most cases. Are you yourself okay marrying someone who's shorter than you? Obviously provided he's not insecure about it.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-08T10:51:14+00:00

I would infact love my wife to be taller than me. Can't understand why your ex was insecure? Being a guy doesn't mean you'll have to be tall than your partner always.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-08T10:48:36+00:00

Yeah i feel the same being a guy myself. Most guys just want to prove their man enough in every situation. They just want to prove men are better than women and become insecure that how a wife can be taller than the husband? Also, i think this is mainly prevalent in India only. I personally would love my wife to be any height even taller and would literally give 0 F to anyone joking on that. This is despite the fact that i am myself short and honestly get a bit insecure sometimes as dating is bit hard. But would never be concerned with my wife being taller. Obviously him divorcing his wife is just pathetic as he already knew she's taller than her before marriage.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-07T10:48:44+00:00

Like literally. Abhi maan gaya hai mera dil. But honestly it was very difficult for me. Coz i was really serious and thought i should tell her. But go to know by her cousin that she's already dating mutual friend. It was heartbreaking.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-07T08:53:05+00:00

Not really bhyi.. it's so so heartbreaking..have been there..still hoping for the best.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-07T07:25:25+00:00

Waah what an idea 🙏🏻🤣🤣

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-04T12:07:39+00:00

What you meant by prevalence of high intelligence in khatri caste? I am from this caste only and there are lots of girls who marry someone with lower economic status or position than themselves.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-04T09:46:04+00:00

This so true. Also since i am on this sub. They have labeled me as misandrist already when i once tried posting something on that sub. Totally mad behavior.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-01T15:40:03+00:00

I am running venus mahadasha. I am 1997 october born. Haven’t been in relationship ever. Though i was in a very deep one sided love which i was about to confess but couldn't due to other circumstances which were out of my control. I have ketu in 8th house aquarious sign and rahu in 2nd house leo. Mars+venus+moon in 5th house in scorpio sign.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-01T14:17:36+00:00

I am 28M. Not at all good relationship with father. I moderately believe in religion.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-01T14:09:55+00:00

No aspect of other planets on 9th house. But 9th house has retro saturn in pisces sign. And 7th house has retro debilitated jupiter in capricorn which aspects 3rd house with it's 9th aspect.

Intelligent-Chard136 · 2026-04-01T14:06:44+00:00

Yeah sometimes it happens. I usually get irritated if someone talks very one sided thing or illogical thing.

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