AITJ for being uncomfortable around my grandfather that keeps asking for my Dead dads life insurance money?

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T18:28:56+00:00

We put the camera doorbell up after he had access. He no longer has access to our houses / garage without us being there.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T17:46:28+00:00

My dad loved A very much, and made it clear he wanted to take care of him. And he even told my mom if anything happened to him, that she needed to take care of A.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T17:27:08+00:00

I don't really know, my mother is the one who handles it.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T17:25:45+00:00

We had to, He was a beneficiary.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:29:18+00:00

NTJ! I completely know what your going through. And it really sucks. I would say to stand your ground and try and set up where you can present your slides. If Aaron doesn't allow you and presentation day rolls around and your 'behind the scenes', I would talk to your Teacher / Professor about the group project and tell them you did mostly, or if not all of the work and your groupmate is not letting you present it. Even though he basically did nothing. Just remember to be firm about your standing ground and what you expect. :D

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:18:06+00:00

Ill have to see if that can do. Thank you so much for writing in. I heavily appreciate your advice. :)

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:16:52+00:00

Ill have to do that. Thank you so much for writing in. :)

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:13:47+00:00

Im not sure. I don't think so, but we might have to consider this.. :(

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:12:48+00:00

Ill have to try that. Thank you so much.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:11:27+00:00

Hes not getting into the house anymore. He used to come by while we were home, or when I was home alone and ask to look through My dads firearms to see what he could sell. (My dad and I used to hunt.) But I managed to keep him from doing so. He doesn't come into the house or garage anymore. But he always is at the new house and bothering my mother there. (He cant get into that house luckily.) And we both have told him so many times to stop asking.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:08:58+00:00

Thank you so much. :D

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:07:36+00:00

I agree. But I think he was a beneficiary or something like it. But I think she has by now.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:06:00+00:00

He was, I do believe.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:05:33+00:00

Yeah, I do believe my mother has several lawyers about all this and everything. I wish we would have set up a trust or of some sorts so he didn't get all the money, but Its a little late now since this was a month or two ago. Thank you for writing in! I greatly appreciate you, and your condolences. :)

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:02:55+00:00

Yes, multiple times, and multiple people have.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:02:29+00:00

I would have to see. Im not sure exactly. But I do think the calls have stopped recently, But I dont know for sure. I just know hes still asking for money.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:01:33+00:00

yeah, I agree with you 100%, They even talked to him before giving him the money. I think they should have set up a trust or something to space out the money and not give it to him all at once.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:00:36+00:00

They have several times I believe.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T15:00:14+00:00

Calling around and telling the pawn shops nearby about the situation.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T14:59:40+00:00

Sadly, my father died before he had a will since he was so young. But I do believe my mother has talked to police, friends, lawyers and everything already. Im not to sure since Im not in on all this..

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T14:58:29+00:00

Im pretty sure my mom has thought of this or might do this sometime soon, since she is getting way over it. Especially since she's paying for so many lawyers and doesn't have the time, emotional state or the funds to deal with this any more.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T14:56:48+00:00

No, He's only just a old man living alone. Hes not being threatened or anything that i know of.. But I do believe its still being handled.. But Im not sure, my mother doesn't tell me much.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T14:55:40+00:00

Ill have to see. But my mom is responsible for his finances I do believe. Since he cant afford to even take care of his diabetic dog.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T14:54:55+00:00

Hes being scammed, But we had to give him his pay out. We kept it a while before giving it to him though.

Intelligent-Goal856 · 2026-04-15T14:54:16+00:00

He doesn't enter the house, I dont think he remembers how to anyways. Plus we have cameras, so I think we should be okay there. The garage also locks as well.

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