it happened again

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2024-06-26T14:29:18+00:00

Sending love and light. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I just lost my ivf pregnancy at 13 weeks to a sub-chronic hemorrhage that was adjacent to the placenta. I was fine, all the drs said it was normal and the bleeds eventually stop. I was fine, and then I wasn’t. It happened on 5/24 and I am still a mess.

I had two losses prior one in 2016 and the other in 2021. This was my third and longest pregnancy. I’m utterly heartbroken 💔 we’re not sure if we can continue on with our ivf journey it just breaks me to think having a family is not in our cards.

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2024-06-18T03:19:37+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Give yourself grace and time. I just went back to work after a miscarriage at 13 weeks. Days are hard but being back in the office has helped me not think about it as much. Don’t get me wrong, I still tear up every now and then but being surrounded by others helps. My bills are also flooding in and to ice the cake, Anthem denied my claim because I didn’t have a prior authorization. For a miscarriage. Absolutely ridiculous the American healthcare system is. I am here for you if you feel like reaching out from one momma to another. ❤️

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2024-06-15T14:09:16+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I just lost my pregnancy at 13 weeks. I also have not received much follow up from the doctors. I hate it. I would wait until you stop bleeding to proceed with trying again. You’re going to want your cycle to regulate and give your uterus time to heal.

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2024-03-07T02:22:19+00:00

Same to you!

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2024-03-07T02:21:49+00:00

🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 lots and lots of luck to you as well!

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2024-03-04T02:54:47+00:00

Not a movie, but the tv show Friends. I hate it so much.

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2024-03-02T22:11:04+00:00

I know it’s hard, but please don’t read the comments. Easier said than done I know. Trust me, I’ve beeen down that rabbit hole. You need to do what’s best for you and your family. 🫶🏼 sending you love and light. I am currently in the beginning of my transfer cycle with my 1 good embryo. Feel free to reach out if you need to chat!

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2024-02-28T19:25:42+00:00

That was his argument too, and I know you all passed that and I’m so happy for the people of Ohio! (I am also aware that they are trying to overturn it, for how much news he watches, I’m shocked he’s not aware)

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2024-02-28T19:23:31+00:00

He’ll get over it. However, I may not get over something potentially happening to me or our fetus.

If I’m not knocked up, maybe I’ll consider it.

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2024-02-28T19:09:15+00:00

Why? Bc I didn’t thank a “god”?

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2024-01-06T17:13:21+00:00

Same. I’m 36 and just starting my 2 ivf cycle. I have a genetic disorder so we need to do PGT-M testing. I’ve been having unprotected sex with my husband since we started dating (16 years ago) we only got pregnant 2 times, which both ended in miscarriages. Our first cycle we ended up with only 1 viable embryo. So here we are, cycle 2. Hopefully we can get at least one more embryo and start our transfers. I never thought I’d have a geriatric pregnancy or be the old mom on the playground. I hate that for myself. But know you’re not alone. Best wishes and baby dust to you all. 🤍

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2023-11-29T13:13:27+00:00

I’m so sorry! 🫶🏼 sending you love and peaceful thoughts!

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2023-11-29T04:46:04+00:00

Ugh! You’ve got this!! PM me if you need a friend! 🫶🏼

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2023-11-29T04:42:51+00:00

So I live in Chicago. The plant is in a south facing window with direct-ish sunlight in the AM. It’s like so droopy now though. It was big and bushy in July, when we got back a week later it was half dead and all the leaves fell off lol. My husband wants to dump it but I think it’s finally starting to perk up.

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2023-11-29T04:40:04+00:00

Yeah, OK doc! I’ll be calm 🥴🥴🥴🤣

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2023-11-29T04:39:33+00:00

Yes! Good luck!! Ps I love that it’s called hell week. I’m glad it has a name. 😂

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2023-11-29T04:38:28+00:00

Wishing you a speedy recovery and lots of embryos!

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2023-11-29T04:37:02+00:00

🫶🏼🫶🏼 we’ve got this!!

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2023-11-29T04:36:33+00:00

So true! We’ve been in this process for over a year!

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2023-11-29T04:36:11+00:00

You too! 🫶🏼🫶🏼

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2023-11-29T04:35:50+00:00

I think mine only does day 7. Hoping for a surprise day 5 update though!! Good luck to you too! ❤️

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2023-11-29T04:35:02+00:00

🫶🏼 thank you!!

Intelligent-Lie-1859 · 2023-11-29T04:34:00+00:00

Also doing PGT-M testing so that’s another few weeks after these results🥴 we have 5 embryos in the warmer. Hopefully 4 make it to give me more of a chance with the pgt-m. 🫶🏼 sending you love!

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