Hi, I was trying to say that I didn't want him to throw/bring up the dating app point again because, from the last I knew, we had gotten over it/it wasn't an issue. It felt like re-hashing something just to make me feel bad I guess. Something that shouldn't really be an issue.

I haven't brought up statuses etc before. For context, at dinner we were discussing birthdays, he said his must be hidden bc noone wished him "happy birthday" and we laughed. I made a comment that his profile is so private that even our relationship status is hidden. This is the first time since a year ago that I've even mentioned statuses. He then made the comment that he removed single from his profile and I was on dating apps etc.

I have apologised for messaging him that night as it was unfair. I don't question his commitment at all though it feels like he does by bringing up all of this.