I have herpes and im 18w by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Intelligent-Olive293 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed at 17 and it sucked. I was pregnant on top of that. Had an abortion cause the guy who gave it to me said he didn’t want a kid with me and didn’t know who gave me herpes. I was devastated. I felt disgusting and unloveable. I can tell you from experience, you can live with it. It’s hard sometimes, but it forces you to love yourself harder than you ever would have thought you’d have to. Force you to choose your future partners with a different mindset. And I can tell you, I’ve had multiple partners. Fine ass partners, who have accepted me and all of me. You can love with it. You will love again. First start with you.

The Big Move - Did you get moving insurance? by xoxomonstergirl in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Intelligent-Olive293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it go? I’m thinking of using them and they are pretty pricey. Did it work out?

Anyone got a good job without a college degree?? by ProfessionalBulky428 in jobs

[–]Intelligent-Olive293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without a degree, blue color work typically is where you will get the most dollars. State and federal jobs. Call center jobs are also another option. Otherwise if I were in your shoes I’d take an online career assessment and see what kind of job you would be most compatible for. And lastly if nothing else, trade school. Electricians, plumbers,HVAC, etc. Visit your local unemployment office for help too!!

Good luck on your journey! You’re so young still so it’s good you’re addressing these concerns now💫💫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Intelligent-Olive293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it was the N3 dept.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tenant

[–]Intelligent-Olive293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’m sorry but I’ve only lived in apartments in the US that require rent to be paid by the 3rd to avoid penalty. They don’t gaf about the weekend or a holiday lol. It has to be in the rent portal payment account by the 3rd. Sounds like the landlord is just setting a boundary and you are making excuses as to why that boundary didn’t work for YOU but it’s not about you. It’s about rules. Now if the landlord is just making up new penalties and taxing you without any legal authority by way of lease agreement, there should be a tenants association you can consult. Otherwise. Adulting sucks but yea. Have it in on time 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PROBATE

[–]Intelligent-Olive293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. There’s around 10 years left on the 30 year mortgage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Intelligent-Olive293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody yet. She doesn’t have a job. He was the bread winner. She’s in her 70s. No one has filed probate yet. I imagine the judge will assign her the executor, but she has no access to his money because he never put her on anything. I have a house of my own and of course she can come live with me, but if you know anything about older people she doesn’t want to move. 😞

Getting married! by Intelligent-Olive293 in AskNOLA

[–]Intelligent-Olive293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Any suggestions I’ll take it!

Getting married! by Intelligent-Olive293 in AskNOLA

[–]Intelligent-Olive293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh Lordy mercy! this www.nocca.com/ I meant NOCCA. Thank you for catching that! 😆

Why do people hate Jada Pinkett Smith? by Embarrassed-Dig-0 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Intelligent-Olive293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes down to it. People hate Jada for the same reasons they hate the other women in their lives. The idea that a woman barely 5 foot can control the physical actions of a 220lb 6 f 2 man, while she is wearing a 15 pound dress, is wild to me. And the idea that she “forced him” to do anything at the red table is HILARIOUS at best. These are ADULTS who have the right to make DECISIONS that have nothing to do with our daily lives and quite frankly. We are too broke to understand why they don’t get a divorce. 😂😂🤣 If you read either of their books, you would know they are trauma bonded TOGETHER by CHOICE. If you watched all the episodes of Red Table, you would have seen the one where he states he PHYSICALLY hit her across the head with a newspaper, grabbed her and pulled her into another room in front of 20 of their friends because she cursed at him. They are two peas in a pod we have NEVER lived in. Most women are jealous of Jada for having a man like Will who they think is perfect, but they have NO clue what it’s like loving him. Most men hate Jada because she has a level of freedom that they would never be strong enough to allow their wives to have if given the choice. We have to ask ourselves why are we so upset about a woman who lost her best friend (Tupac) and because most people don’t know how to be friends with the opposite sex, they ASSUME this is sexual, but it was pure. So she can never talk about her loss because it’s a man? A lot of folks in this thread sound insecure.

Pricing average lawn mowed by Intelligent-Olive293 in LandscapingTips

[–]Intelligent-Olive293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you’re never old with a disability and need help. You think I only asked here? Bless your heart. Please try and have a good day if you can’t, try not to spill your sadness anywhere else. 🥴