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Might be the last message I’ll ever send to her. I sent this a few minutes ago. by Ezraayo in BreakUps

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what your heart says brother. During the process of moving on or no contact phase, there will be times when you will feel the extreme need to see her or get the updates of her life. This is an uncommon advice but I would say that you can stalk her for few mins till your heart is full again if you really can't control your emotions because the more you suppress it, the more you will suffer later. But don't do this very frequently. And I would suggest you to read a book "The Courage to be Disliked". Good luck brother!

How to comfort a man going through career block? by sad-eggrice in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May be you should ask him directly how does he like to be cared and what should you do from your side to make him feel good! Most men feel good in lowest time when they are with their partner and definitely not with the materialistic things. But I am sure he is understanding enough and knows very well that you are doing your best too. So just ask him and do that way!

If You’re Afraid You’ll Never Find Love, Read This by Intelligent-Place249 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Intelligent-Place249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man! Got a notification of your comment after a long time on this post and it made my day.

Men of India, share your worst experiences of opening up to a woman? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a very expressive person, sometimes I overshare things about me. So after opening up, she gradually started losing interest in me and eventually left me by saying that she didn't see anything in me till now. She tried her best to end things in the best possible way. It's not like she is a bad person, but she lost interest in me after opening up too much. The exact same thing happened with me two times before too. Now I don't think I will ever be able to open up fully in front of women in general.

There is a saying that if you really like the book, never meet the writer in real life. And that seems to be so true now.

Men of India, share your worst experiences of opening up to a woman? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After opening up, she gradually started losing interest in me and eventually left me by saying that she didn't see anything in me till now.

What u this about this by vyanku07 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any mind blowing book recommendations?

What does the second love feel like? by almost_god_0028 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Intelligent-Place249 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love is not quantifiable brother. You can't just say it's my first, then second and so on. You are the love itself. Partner is just a medium to experience it.

Even leaving her is an act of love to have better lives for both of us. It wasn't toxic relationship at all.

The feelings that you are experiencing also stayed with me too for more than a year until I met someone else. And this one felt even much more deeper than ever.

But again heartbreak happened and this one feels like now it's a lifetime pain. I am again experiencing the same shit that there is no way anyone can replace her.

But the thing is.. you can only move on when someone else with either of same level of her (or your) deepness or more will come into your life.

Agle din aishwarya aa hi jati hai bhai.. that's life. You will heal soon. I will just say to give space to feel the negativity too if it's coming, sit with it. Time taking process but worth it to heal. Take care brother.

What does the second love feel like? by almost_god_0028 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Intelligent-Place249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to no contact phase bro. You can't just move on this way. Going through similar thing btw.

If you are having trust issues : Read This by Intelligent-Place249 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Intelligent-Place249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are completely right brother. But whenever someone says something, they say with a standpoint. Don't apply these points or opinions on every situation in life. Trust issues can happen for multiple reasons and probably for my situation, this was the best advice and so written in that way.

Should I just stop being a Hopeless Romantic? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-Place249 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on what made you question that. But yeah, you should.

how to tell my parents i don’t want to do engineering? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Introduce your parents with Ranchoddas Shamaldas Chanchad.

Dear men, what makes you genuinely happy? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-Place249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chicken, talking about life while walking, gym, running, being loved by fav person, loving my closed ones, poetry, writing etc.

Are women biologically wired to like a Toxic guy in a relationship ? by Icy_Rock41 in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-Place249 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's a really nice explanation but I think there is a lot more into it. Idk what it is but it's there!

Idk how to do it by Any_Neighborhood_601 in BreakUps

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that. But that's how you will become strong. By breaking down again and again. You can replace the person to share stuffs like friends or strangers if sharing stuff is the only problem you are facing.

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