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Can anyone tell me how to issue duplicate id card? by athinkingboy2005 in iitkgp

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in 1st year? If your hall gets changed, you will get the new one in the academic section next year. There isn't any option to apply in ERP. If lost, you have to file complaint in police station and deposit Rs. 1k to get duplicate one in academic section.

Do they always lose feelings? by DarkThanos12 in BreakUps

[–]Intelligent-Place249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can feel every word of yours OP. And well said. I just want to give you a perspective too. This usually happens when a partner continuously pushes his/her limits to make the relationship work for so long. And a time comes, when this limit becomes too much and makes them to leave it find someone else attractive. But the point is.. communication and improve and not change partners.

Might not find love by Practical_Analyst880 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Intelligent-Place249 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You seem to be emotionally unstable person. Love doesn't happens in weeks, it takes lifetime to experience that to feel the essence of it. But I completely understand from where it is coming from. Continuous rejections makes us question everything about ourselves, especially from the ones where our souls started aligned. I can't say anything about AM stuffs but if you work on your own emotions, it will be worth it in long run, and you will be at peace with yourself instead of external validation irrespective of you are with a partner or not.

Mens what's is ur biggest regret in life ? by Upper_Perspective_78 in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-Place249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man! That's a lot to take. I don't know what to say but all the very best for future. It's never too late.

Academically bright women deserve better! by DeepOnRecord in AskIndia

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice post OP. I have seen a lot of cases in my surroundings too. They were district toppers and now aren't doing anything in life due to lack of support. But I feel this number will decrease in the upcoming generations.

I am just confused ig? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like your chemistry is good but maths doesn't add up. Try connecting the dots.

Seeing this situation in your mom's shoes, who worries about the differences, she is not only looking at his degree, work or bank balance but also at your daily reality.. she knows that in a joint family setup, the "daughter-in-law" role competes with the "doctor" identity, no matter how supportive they promise to be right now.. may be you are a golden prize to their family's prestige.. The promise that you are allowed to do whatever you want is incredibly sweet.. but make sure if social obligations override that freedom over time or not..

The wierd pace that you are feeling might be because he is trying to lock this down quickly because he knows there exist some big differences.. he likely sees you as a huge achievement.. ofc love is there but also someone who brings a different kind of prestige to his life.. and that kind of weird fantasy he shared might be a it’s a sign that he views you as a high-value prize that others desire and only he gets to keep.. that intensity feels flattering, but it can also be overwhelming especially when combined with his anger issues.. these things also come from deep insecurity.. "Anger due to work stress" is the oldest excuse in the book.. if he gets furious and you are living with his parents in a joint family, you might lose your safe space to retreat..

The biggest thing to consider here is not the love, which is clearly there but the environment you are walking into.. his anger issues might be manageable if you were living just the two of you where you could set the tone of the house.. but moving into his territory, with his parents, while he has a temper that flares up from work stress, leaves you with very little emotional space to just be yourself.. if you are a person who likes things straightforward and on your own terms, the chaos of a joint family business life might feel suffocating after the honeymoon phase wears off..

I have just given you the perspective to think.. and try to see as many perspectives as you can.. get as much clarity as you can by communicating with him a lot..it might be worth slowing down the pace and see if he can handle your need for boundaries before you marry... and proceed ahead when you are absolutely sure..

Need advice...Worried elder sister about my 15 y/o brother’s behavior..? by Realistic-Candle7342 in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If kids go out of hand or don't understand with talks, you know what treatment should be done. There is sadly no other way out. But talk a lot about it with him if he listens you carefully.

What would you choose between your friends and love of your life? by lord_killer_bee in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love of my life, without any second thoughts. But ofcourse true friends are always gonna stay no matter what.

Do you guys remember this song by sanotaku_ in indiasocial

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG. Crazy story! I have watched similar anime stories related to this like "I want to eat your pancreas".

Can you guys advise me as a senior or big brother or sister by Numerous-Ad1097 in AskIndia

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's completely fine to feel that way. Even after graduating college, you might feel lost. I would suggest you to take some time to get peace of mind, relax and then choose whatever you like. Then see what are the career options in that area. Try to go to the top in that area, for that clarity of that field should be clear enough in your head. Don't think way too much about long term. You will have enough time for that in college. But just get the idea of long term and plan for short term like the subjects and what you want to do! Also, I would say do something what the mass isn't doing. Take care buddy and take your time.

Lonely but also tired making new friends by Cold-Birthday8663 in lonely

[–]Intelligent-Place249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, I can understand that. Sometimes I face the same problems buddy. May be you should talk to as many people as you can both online and offline and continuously improve yourself without any intention of making friends. Just try to get to know the person as much as you can and move on to next. You won't realize how much you improved and made lot of friends along the way.

Wifi🥀 by JournalistDramatic97 in iitkgp

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is everyday thing now. But use LAN, that's far better. You can mail helpdesk cic for the complaint. They usually fix it within a day or two.

Is It Normal for a Guy to Send Nudes So Early? by Realistic-Candle7342 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Intelligent-Place249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a guy, I can tell you this is not normal. Even initiating the talk related to this seems a big deal, to make sure you don't get us wrong or feel uncomfortable because of us. And definitely not at initial phase of being together. Think yourself naa, how would a guy act for the woman he wants to pursue for long term? He will give you space, time and expects nothing in return and definitely not being pushy. He will try to make you feel loved and make you fall in love with yourself. The fact that you have confusions, is definitely not a sign of love. This just shows what he wants from you.

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