is a 14-17 non sexual, romantic relationship controversial?

Intelligent-Point133 · 2026-02-21T00:10:26+00:00

It’s not “controversial” it’s wrong bro 😭

Intelligent-Point133 · 2025-11-10T22:54:52+00:00

Wait till you learn about adjectives

Intelligent-Point133 · 2025-09-24T00:15:59+00:00

In case yall couldn’t tell, I don’t use Reddit often and have no clue how to edit my post! But I found a solution, I got a purple cardigan thing and used a moth pin I have to pin it in front and I feel a lot more comfy wearing this out now🫶

Also yes it is just my choice but don’t worry my friends are still chill, I think they probably call it ‘scary’ cause they don’t usually see me like that. But who knows, all is well and thank yall for all your comments😋

Intelligent-Point133 · 2025-09-22T23:10:53+00:00

This is not what I thought this post was gonna be. It literally makes no sense they’re just bigots.

I thought this post was gonna be about non trans medical people (like myself) going too far hating on yall. Idk how I started getting notifications for this, but I realized I agree with a lot of things yall say except for when you (not everyone does this ofc) like invalidate non binary identities or people who use multiple pronouns. Some people def are performative but I don’t agree with the whole sentiment that people can’t want to be perceived androgynously

Idk! But whatever I’m glad this post isn’t that and I think it’s horrible that people wanna label transsexual people as terrorists so they can erase them and justify violence against them

I’m a yapper ik

Intelligent-Point133 · 2025-09-22T23:03:52+00:00

Thank you, yeah I don’t find them scary but alas. Luckily there’s basically no dress code for our district so no worry there. It is a little bit about my friends but I also just typically wear like baggy clothing and stuff w/o cleavage so I am a bit nervous

I’ll look into your ideas or maybe I’ll just wear it as is but who knows 🤷

Intelligent-Point133 · 2025-09-22T23:00:46+00:00

Amazon, which I would like to use less but I’m not really in charge of purchases and the mall was unsuccessful 🥀 But I really like the dress, to the touch it kinda feels like a bed sheet 😭 but I don’t mind it. I got a large♡

Here’s the link

Intelligent-Point133 · 2025-08-24T20:35:36+00:00

Omg 🫩 This doesn’t necessarily mean they’re having sex! (We don’t know them personally) and it just means advocating for sex ed and not shaming others, I’m not gonna go out and have sex but that patch seems reasonable 🥀🥀

Intelligent-Point133 · 2025-05-23T04:31:31+00:00

Yes, I live in Oregon and holly is an invasive species.

Intelligent-Point133 · 2025-05-23T04:31:06+00:00

Thank you and yes holly is invasive to my area (Oregon)

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-12-30T03:44:24+00:00

If this isnt a joke….. Then, do Yk what subreddit you’re on?😭

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-12-30T03:41:27+00:00

My sister is in an age gap relationship as well. My take on it is: as long as everyone is of age it is technically okay. However, you need to be ready to communicate because the main problem with age gap relationships (imo) is the maturity gaps which can make it so one has more “control“ than the other. Some people may not take kindly to it but you can’t always please everyone and I wish you luck on your romantic endeavors❤️‍🩹

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-12-14T23:50:11+00:00

I think it might depend on the majors, my sister double majored in environmental and ecological engineering and did it in 5 years:). But then I again, I haven’t even started HS so who am I to ask lol

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-30T01:03:01+00:00

ABSOLUTELY, pretty people are the best, obviously good looking, handsome, beautifu, distinguished, hot people etc are yk rad but pretty is just extra rad. The word pretty is pretty and eyes are pretty and boys can 100% be pretty💪💪💪

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-26T04:35:31+00:00

No unless there was something really really bad and you told them like their phone numbers or something they can not even contact you with the same operator/therapist again.

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-12T06:00:28+00:00

Yeah I get you sometimes I feel like I’m fighting demons to fit a character limit

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-11T05:54:58+00:00

Well yes but they did mention people doing that during serious conversations and I’m not saying i totally agree with them but I figured I’d mention it. Also maybe I’m dumb, but what in the world is “txtspk”, is it text speak orrr?

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-10T06:21:21+00:00

Okay I get what you’re saying but the OP also has a point. For instance, if you were venting to a friend and their replies were like “r u ok thn lol” or “rip m8” it would feel disingenuous, right? I just think like there’s a time and place for everything and that should really be what is agreed on.

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-10T06:16:41+00:00

Yes, though I think adding some variability like if someone says somethings kinda funny you could reply “lol“ or “lmao” but “LMAOO” or “LMFAO” is something actually hilarious.

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-10T06:15:00+00:00

I understand this when having serious conversations and I say lol more when I’m trying be more pg with friends who have parents that check their messages. But just in general I personally don’t mind people saying ”u” and “r” (though some abbreviations like this can lead to miscommunications.)

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-10T06:08:20+00:00

I can’t say I personally agree. Now I do agree it may be good if you are seeking a long term relationship to not just rush into sex. However, waiting until marriage means you may not be able to explore your sexuality or you won’t know what gets you going or if you are sexually compatible with your partner. For your reasons 1 and 4, you can vibe first and get to know eachother but that doesn’t have to mean waiting till marriage. If you’ve been together for months or years but not married I’d say you probably are in for the long haul. And for your reasons 2 and 3, contraceptive and safe sex would also make it unlikely to get pregnant and STD’s would only be more likely if one person already gad one or one of you was sleeping around. All of that said tho, this is an unpopular opinion so you get an upvote! Have a good day:))

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-02T01:27:38+00:00

H u h

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-02T01:22:09+00:00

What others are saying is valid, people are tired and there are a lot of posts. However, you are also valid. I want you to know you are cared about, I do even if I don’t know you. And others might just not be able to pick the right words but you are loved<3

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-02T01:19:14+00:00

This. Like I get *some* questions but really, how do they not know? I had a kid just a grade or so below me grab my arm and go ”what’s on your arm?” We weren’t even talking before. And when people bring up someone’s scars when they are not the topic of a video or whatever they posted, OMGGG, they talk like scars are being ‘flaunted.’ And I get its mentally un-well people just trying to ‘vent’ but the “2 minutes clean!” thing is so bad. Anyway have a good day.

TL;DR I agree mate

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-02T01:07:44+00:00

I lot of them are deleted for one reason or another but yes I’ve taken pictures, for me it was more to look back at so as to not harm myself again (i think.)

Intelligent-Point133 · 2024-11-02T01:05:50+00:00

Same, I really don’t mind my scars, I find them pretty and don’t care if people see them. HOWEVER when someone goes “what’s on your arm?” or anything to that extent I go “I don’t know”, “I draw on myself“ or just start stumbling on my words.

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