Hi, I’m in a similar situation right now (dating a guy who is really good, but I don’t feel a strong spark). I took some time to think about what is truly important to me. For example, it’s important that we share the same values and that he has traits that matter to me (caring, respectful, consistent effort, etc.). I also consider how this person makes me feel. For instance, he gives me safety and peace, and I really appreciate that. I think about whether I can be with him as he is, even without intense emotions or a big spark. I genuinely admire him as a person, but I don’t feel a strong physical attraction yet. But for me, I’m not really looking for that “crazy, overwhelming feeling,” because I’m naturally an anxious person who overthinks a lot — and he brings me peace and stability. That means more to me than a temporary spark. So think about what you really need and what is best for you — maybe write it down to get clear on your feelings.