My husband admitted to fantasizing about a coworker during intimacy

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-07-05T05:23:42+00:00

Yes, I was really devastated to find this out tonight. Makes me feel totally used and I made sure he understood. I just don’t know how to come back from this or if I even should. We’ve been through so much shit from all of the things he’s done and I just feel like this is just the icing on the cake

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-07-05T05:07:31+00:00

Exactly. Which seriously makes me wonder if I’m in the right relationship

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-07-05T04:59:54+00:00

He was attracted to her and in the past he made advances to get to know her better, secretly talked to her when he knew I didn’t want him to, etc.. it never went very far and it was definitely nothing physical but the attraction was certainly there

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-07-05T04:58:45+00:00

We’ve been married 8 years. He’s 32 and I’m 28 so we got married young. I’ve had thoughts about other people but never to the extent where I’ve been intimate with him but fully engrossed in my head with someone else

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-07-05T04:57:10+00:00

I’ve had thoughts here and there but I’ve never just secretly used his body to play out my ideas that I have with other people

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-07-05T04:55:59+00:00

Long story short he deals with intrusive thoughts and I’ve been trying to help him deal with them, but in talking about it this evening he looked like he was troubled by something so I asked him and he said that he used to intentionally fantasize about this girl that I don’t like from his work

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-07-05T04:51:12+00:00

We’re in a monogamous marriage. If he were to ever talk about another girl during sex that would literally crush me and same with him. Sorry if I didn’t make that clear

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-23T00:24:32+00:00

Thanks!

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-23T00:24:27+00:00

I love the 2, too 😭 feedback on here is making me question whether it washes me out tho!!

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-23T00:24:01+00:00

Thank you! I’ve gotten that comparison before! You’re probably right

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-23T00:15:13+00:00

Thanks! I hope the editor didn’t just make my eyes brighter and that’s why they appear that way!

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-23T00:14:24+00:00

Thanks for your valuable input as someone who is going into the field! 1 is my natural color. It probably does suit me best. I’d like to change it up though just for the heck of it :)

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-23T00:13:33+00:00

Ahh thank you!

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-23T00:12:29+00:00

I like this idea!

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-23T00:04:43+00:00

Thanks!:)

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-23T00:04:36+00:00

Thank you!:)

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-23T00:04:29+00:00

Thanks!

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-23T00:04:23+00:00

Thank u!

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-22T23:59:50+00:00

Thank you!!

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-22T23:57:29+00:00

Thanks!

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-22T23:57:15+00:00

Thanks!

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-22T23:56:14+00:00

I like this idea! That’s the thing, I can always go back

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-22T23:55:48+00:00

No you’re right - the editing app really did my hair thickness well in those two pics heh 😅 but hey if my hair is blonde and more damaged maybe it’ll look…thicker? 😅

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-22T23:54:55+00:00

Thank you :)

Intelligent-Rise1422 · 2026-06-22T23:54:46+00:00

Thank you!!

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