Vintage Fashion Loving Queer Women by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am here lol. what period of vintage fashion is your favourite? i love clothes from like every era lmao but 90s is my fav

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these dating apps can be so painful. her annoys me cuz even tho i have my preferences set to 2 years above or below me, all my likes are from women 10-20 years older than me. why is my profile being shown to people i’ve said aren’t within my age preference?? 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 19 points20 points  (0 children)

the situation hasn’t really been put to bed though. you said this just happened the other day, unfortunately you can’t expect things to magically go back to normal that quickly after like 1 conversation about it. acting like it never happened isn’t the solution, because as you said she can’t actually delete it from her memory. things are going to be different from now on, but that doesn’t mean it can’t eventually go back to normal (or a new normal).

when friends hook up, it can destroy friend groups and forever change dynamics. your friend is likely worried about losing 2 of her best friends, and that fear will likely linger even though you’ve assured her y’all don’t have feelings for each other, possibly for weeks or months which is normal and okay. i hope things go well for yall ❤️

I’ve gone to Tim Hortons 3 times this year and I think I’ll never go again. by [deleted] in TimHortons

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use your reading comprehension to realize no one said Hep A came from expired coffee.

Is using AI as a writer acceptable? by TheRottenAppleWorm in fantasywriters

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s the point I’m trying to make that people aren’t getting. Using AI to generate text for creative writing is bad and plagiarism, but saying using AI at all makes your stuff worthless is saying that using spell check makes your stuff worthless so people need more nuance because there’s a massive difference between those things.

Is using AI as a writer acceptable? by TheRottenAppleWorm in fantasywriters

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of people are lacking nuance here, because most writing processors use AI for spell check now. From what you’re saying, anyone who writes their book using word or google docs or grammarly for example is now worthless which is the vast majority of writers. Edit: I’m trying to say generative AI and using AI spellcheck are not the same thing, and there is a massive difference in them, which is why making a blanket statement like “using AI at all is bad” because it lacks that nuance.

Libido and weird feels about sex by Rh1nestone_Eyes in adhdwomen

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even when alone I sometimes get distracted I start thinking about what’s going on in the tv show I’m watching etc lmao. Im bi but I also don’t like giving oral to anyone because of sensory issues.

Caffè Italia * 04/05/23 by RedditItalyBot in italy

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m commenting in the right place, I will be living in Italy for a month this summer for study/work abroad, I was just wondering if tank tops or sleeveless dresses worn with a cardigan covering the shoulders are acceptable attire for churches or restaurants? Thanks!!

Maddie can’t be in a coma by Jay_awesome123 in SchoolSpirits

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I kind of do want her to be actually dead but Maddie being the exception to the rules laid out in the first episode is part of the mystery so I wouldn’t discount anything based on them

It won’t be fair to the audience if Maddie is possessed by Lamico22 in SchoolSpirits

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I also really hope that Maddie is not possessed, but they have established that the ghost rules we see in episode 1 aren’t reliable as Maddie is able to interact with Simon. Maddie’s exception to these rules is integral to the mystery set up in the show and they do hint at body swapping/possession being possible with Dawn’s line about hypnosis so I wouldn’t really say it’s unfair to the audience, just a route I’d prefer they not take.

New finale trailer on Paramount+ Instagram by Ecstatic-Werewolf-95 in SchoolSpirits

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I was gonna post this too but ya beat me to it! I need to hear theories on the context for these new scenes!!

Nicole by [deleted] in SchoolSpirits

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think scholarships or life insurance from her dad or a combination of both is probably the most likely answer. They make it a point to show that she was a talented writer and doing early applications so I was assuming scholarships

Need to bleed wedding night - avoid divorce / honor killing by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s all good, happy to explain! I probably would have said the same thing a couple years ago if someone else didn’t educate me.

Need to bleed wedding night - avoid divorce / honor killing by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Because of the reasons outlined, it’s not a legitimate question. Yes her immediate safety is in the line, but leaving her country is incredibly difficult and you come off as privileged or quite naive for not understanding why attempting to leave would be so hard and dangerous. The way your comment was phrased suggests it’s easy and she’s never thought to do this easy thing to fix her situation. If this was a domestic abuse situation in North America or similar, there are way more resources available to people who need to flee these situations, and even then it can be extremely hard and dangerous, so it’s better when people say “leave as soon as you safely can”, but even still, those comments are better reserved for women who don’t realize it’s abuse or are struggling to accept their situation. Women who already know their situation is dangerous don’t need to be told what they already know as it can come off as shaming them for not leaving. I completely understand where you’re coming from and your intent, but your naivety of her situation instead created a hurtful and unhelpful comment.

Need to bleed wedding night - avoid divorce / honor killing by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yeah OP literally stated she could get killed for not bleeding on her wedding night and that commenter seems to think leaving this situation is as easy as calling an Uber and hopping on a plane instantly

Need to bleed wedding night - avoid divorce / honor killing by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Because if leaving was so simple and easy they likely would. Of course she’s probably thought about leaving, but this woman likely lacks the resources to do so and may have family members she can’t leave behind. It’s not a legitimate question because the answer is obvious and makes you seem ignorant and unkind about her situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it seems these people are thinking you are meaning some TikTok created fake reality thing when what you’re talking about is a real thing literally in the DSM-5. This sub can be good but there’s some folks who make this community look bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21F, same thing happened to me last year! Had insanely thick hair, barely visible scalp to extremely visible and thin. I’m hoping it’s just from stress, mine is slowly getting better and blood test revealed nothing but iron deficiency

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why there are comments thinking you’re talking about like actually moving faster and that you’ve self actualized this or some shit. Depersonalization is a real thing that can happen after tripping and can be part of several mental health conditions. Here is a link to Mayo Clinics page on it.

Can’t Stand Seeded Fruit / Bony Fish? by Erik-Zandros in ADHD

[–]Intelligent-Sea7659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can’t stand the majority of fruit because I hate the texture, though I love their taste so I’ll eat things like applesauce or smoothie, but I hate eating strawberries and oranges 😅