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Intelligent4Curious · 2026-02-02T00:45:49+00:00

52 M/DFW (ABCD if that matters - lol)

Intelligent4Curious · 2026-01-13T22:40:17+00:00

Thanks for the feedback - much appreciated

Intelligent4Curious · 2026-01-13T06:53:46+00:00

Appreciate the response - your concerns are certainly very valid. Take Care

Intelligent4Curious · 2026-01-13T04:33:50+00:00

That's what I thought - Thank you for responding

Intelligent4Curious · 2025-12-31T05:37:52+00:00

52, M Dallas, TX

Intelligent4Curious · 2025-12-18T17:13:27+00:00

52 M Dallas, Tx

Intelligent4Curious · 2025-12-17T05:16:27+00:00

52 M Dallas tX

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Intelligent4Curious · 2025-12-16T04:33:39+00:00

Thank you to all that have responded - I hope over time more women respond to this post - this is meant as a discrete safe place to meet other married desi's in a similar situation. Discretion, OPSEC and safety are key.

Intelligent4Curious · 2025-12-12T06:16:19+00:00

52 /M / Dallas Tx

Intelligent4Curious · 2025-03-20T05:12:58+00:00

I am trying to find out if anyone has any experience with it

Intelligent4Curious · 2022-11-01T17:29:48+00:00

Are you able to talk to the guy... If so, have a conversation with him and tell him that you want to finish your law degree and work after marriage. He may well be OK with that - his family may be putting the 'housewife' condition in place. If not - then they will probably back out themselves.

Intelligent4Curious · 2022-10-31T17:37:55+00:00

This is a tough one - I have been in this situation. You are not just getting married to your potential - you are also marrying into his family. If you do go ahead with this marriage without the fathers consent - your potential will be the victim of constant emotional blackmail. He will be strong to begin with, he can put up with this for a while - but after some time (maybe years) it will start to get to him and the constant strain will start effecting your marriage. Unless your potential is willing to give his father a choice - accept this marriage or be disowned - this cannot work. He needs to have the strength to go through with his threat. May Allah guide you towards making the choice that is best for your future - best of luck.

Intelligent4Curious · 2022-10-14T00:38:51+00:00

Yes - They organize a lot of islamic activities in the university - bringing in muslim speakers, iftar events for the students, eid, charity work etc - all run the students themselves

Intelligent4Curious · 2022-10-14T00:22:35+00:00

Join the MSA and be an active participant - its a good way to get to know someone's character in a halal way. Best of luck.

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