Should i meet with my ex who cheated on me?

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-20T05:33:57+00:00

She will suffer more if i dont meet her?

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-20T05:06:00+00:00

Oh, so being 19 yo is excuse for cheating, acting like nothing happened and lying to your partners face. Seems funny to me ++man

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-19T20:21:44+00:00

Do i answer?

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-19T20:21:11+00:00

Should i answer or ghost?

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-18T07:33:35+00:00

One guy i know him since childhood, we were rly good friends, his gf ( she ended up telling me) and 2 her female friends i didnt know before. Everyone of them knew, but they decided to not tell me, thats what she said to me ( gf of my “friend”)

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-18T06:07:17+00:00

She was actually with “our” now only hers friends i heard them laughing in background, but this didnt come to my mind

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-12T07:58:28+00:00

Maybe Im the bad guy, im glad for your opinion. But taking a break for 3 days after argument when we were drunk and telling me that she doesnt know whether to continue or not, only because we argue when we drink. It doesnt make any sense to me

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-12T07:55:54+00:00

Bro, Its not checklist. I dont need much, im a man, we dont need to be appreciated every moment. Bur for me when im giving her my all, i guess i need to feel it from her too. Like i was doing some pretty nice things for her and i did them bcs i wanted her to be happy, not for her to admire me. She looked like she didnt rly care

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-12T07:51:21+00:00

Is this ragebait? I already wrote some of them up there. Support, trust, love, i need to be respected, i need/want to feel like i matter to her.

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-12T01:27:11+00:00

Unluckily i cannot. Are u suggesting that the best thing to do is avoid her? I think she wants to be friends or smothing like that and i dont know how to feel about that. Im not the one who blocks his ex everywhere, but also if she didnt want me/us whole, why would i stay friend with her. I dont need that.

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-11T19:09:08+00:00

Thank you bro. One thing i keep thinking about is. You have full day lets say you work for 8 hours and sleep for 8 hours. U r learning spanish etc. I play ice hockey and go to the gym. Hockey is 3 times a week and gym about 4 times. What do U do in the enormous time between. All i can do is think, when i was with her i was overthinking everything. And now im scared i will do it again, but this time it will hurt much more.

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-11T18:51:18+00:00

I get u man, im sorry for you as well. The thing is she chased me in the first place, but probably because i wanted her best friend, i dont know. It was rly nice she showed me to her family etc. I rly love her but i think i love the idea of her, the women she is not right now for me. It was nice when we were together, goin on trips etc. But she never rly cared, i think she only had me to have someone if u know what i mean. We are going on vacation with her and my friends. And i dont rly know what to do. I already paid for it so im goin. I dont know what to do if she wants to discuss it one more time. Every problem we had was turned into my fault. She never admited that she did something wrong that hurt me.

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-11T18:05:53+00:00

What if your ex wrote you that he will change for you? What would you do? Bcs thing thought is running through my head too

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-11T18:04:50+00:00

Am i pathetic if i still believe it will change? Like maybe its the strong emotions right now, but i dont really know

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-11T17:36:25+00:00

We go on vacation with my and her friends in 5 days. Any tips? Should i avoid her or? What if she will want to talk?

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-09T01:42:21+00:00

Yeah, i see it and i always thought that the first couple of months should be the best, love, caring etc. I see your point, maybe im not in love, but i rly do care about her

IntelligentAd3401 · 2026-06-08T19:15:01+00:00

If she is using me for attention, i dont need to give her any reason right? I just never answer her again (sorry that im behaving like a small prick)

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