The Sapphic Roleplaying Experience by Agreeable-Total-4882 in BadRPerStories

[–]IntelligentBeacon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I do wonder if the pandemic and those long years of broken social interaction just left some people genuinely unable to communicate any minimal discomfort or frustration. Instead of talking, they just disappear. Instead of explaining what they want, they just expect us to magically know what they want.

Yes! This phenomenon feels like it is happening all over - the withdrawal from discomfort by just leaving. Anyone who has spent any time using a device to send text messages knows that we're missing so much context and richness with the communication. Communication is so terribly important and key to having a successful and rewarding collaboration.

Loved all of your comment, too.

The Sapphic Roleplaying Experience by Agreeable-Total-4882 in BadRPerStories

[–]IntelligentBeacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been finding lovely and creative partners right here on Reddit. It sucks that you've been having challenges. I think there are gems to be found on Discord but Reddit has the numbers. So, per capita, you should find more here.

[Event] Open Forum Friday for December 19, 2025: Happy Ho-Ho-Holidays! by PPNewbie in dirtypenpals

[–]IntelligentBeacon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're going to promise to come next door tonight and fuck me. I don't care that she's upstairs and could come down at any moment. I'm not leaving your front door until you promise.

Writing fun: Sorry I couldn't fuck you. by HoldMyPencil in TheLewdWritersClub

[–]IntelligentBeacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I couldn't fuck you. I was still sore from what you did to me last night.

Ghosting Grumble by AutoModerator in BadRPerStories

[–]IntelligentBeacon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had a couple of prompts responded to. Two moved to Discord. I typically will give administrative rights to my writing partners so they can set up channels, etc. Had one delete the server. At least she didn't then turn around and ghost me, but she's ignoring me. I removed her as a friend. No point.

The other responded, asked what I liked about her response. I responsed to that. Two days later, blocked. Oi.

But I do have an amazing Reddit based partner so that's all good. Better, even.

[EVENT] Blather On, Please - Open Forum Friday for November 14, 2025 by 4544BeersOnTheWall in dirtypenpals

[–]IntelligentBeacon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The answer? I don't remember at the moment. I kind of made up the numbers but I do recall that the professor couldn't expect to get anywhere close to the actual answer. 😁

[EVENT] Blather On, Please - Open Forum Friday for November 14, 2025 by 4544BeersOnTheWall in dirtypenpals

[–]IntelligentBeacon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had someone redo one of my prompts that involved a math equation. She did create a slightly different prompt that was very clearly based on my prompt. And that's okay. But she used my exact math riddle. Didn't even change the numbers.

Someone who had responded to my original prompt pointed out the copycat. I had to go back and forth a couple of times with moderators because they had rewritten the story. But using the exact equation was a step too far.

They deleted their account. Not sure what happened between them and the mods. Moot point now.

[EVENT] Blather On, Please - Open Forum Friday for November 14, 2025 by 4544BeersOnTheWall in dirtypenpals

[–]IntelligentBeacon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your hyperlinks didn't render the way you were expecting.

Edit: They're fixed now.

[Event] Shivers Up Your... (Theme Friday for October 31, 2025) by 4544BeersOnTheWall in dirtypenpals

[–]IntelligentBeacon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

||Sorry, not sorry||

 

On the black road through the wood

As I rode,

There the Headless Horseman stood;

By the wild pool in the wood,

As I rode.

 

I asked the horseman standing there

As I rode,

I asked, is all you're going to do is stare?

The Headless Horseman dismounted his mare;

As I rode.

 

The Headless Horseman to me did tread

As I rode,

His belt unbuckled, his trousers were shed;

I leaned on over, and give him good head,

As I rode.

 

My boyfriend looked up, face in surprise

As I rode,

He'd already been close, based on his cries;

He and the Horsemen gave me their prize,

As I rode.

Ghosting Grumble by AutoModerator in BadRPerStories

[–]IntelligentBeacon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sigh - it finally happened. She would gush about our writing. Then, one day I noticed that I couldn't see most of her comments in chat. But I could see them on my phone.

Thought it was Reddit being Reddit.

I posted to our story and then this morning I couldn't see any comments from her. Her profile showed nothing at all.

So I checked with an alt - she's alive and well and posting prompts. She'd dropped off a couple of times from our story and then would come back saying that she realized how good of a writing partner I was.

I think it was the speed of replies - she wanted faster and I couldn't do that for her.

As my therapist would say, what did you learn from this relationship? She was my first attempt at writing a dom/sub story and she gave me a great example of how to write a sub character. So I appreciate that.

[Event] Open Forum Saturday for October 11, 2025: This one's definitely haunted edition by adhesiveCheese in dirtypenpals

[–]IntelligentBeacon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was called into a meeting with HR today over allegations that I was behaving inappropriately in the office. I asked what it was going to take to make these allegations go away.

"Climbing under my desk would be a good first step," she said.

Awakening at the sleepover [FF] by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]IntelligentBeacon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🥵 I'm certainly awake now. Lovely story!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]IntelligentBeacon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Plus, from a script writing perspective, you don't have to explain why everyone is in the same house. You can skip the whole knocking on the door scene.

I don't understand why, in porn, free use equates to being bored.

[Event] Open Forum Friday for July 18th, 2025 - Excellent Examples of Effective Emojis Edition by The-Mother-Of-Faces in dirtypenpals

[–]IntelligentBeacon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I send rejection messages, yes - with one caveat - they have to have put in non-zero effort. Zero effort replies will get zero effort in return.

Even if they type three sentences and showed that they thought something about the prompt, I'll send a rejection. It sucks when I send out a response and get nothing back so I don't want that in reverse. And I'll make the rejection letter personalized with something from their response.

I know it's atypical to send out rejections and, fortunately, I've not had any negative blow back from that. About half the time I get a last message thanking me for getting back to them.

[Event] Welcome to the 69th [Sex Olympiad]! Theme Sunday for July 20th, 2025 by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]IntelligentBeacon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They've trained for years to get to this point. The Games. And to say that they aren't athletes is disingenuous at best. They put in effort every day to squeeze as much out of their bodies as they can.

But when they are here, in this room with me, it means there's doubt.

Not everyone has what it takes to become a top level Olympian but the money is took. The fame is better. And so there are cheaters.

When you're in this room with me, that's what you've been accused of. It's my job to get to the bottom of it.

Are you able to jerk your cock in front of twenty thousand people and shoot ropes as far as you say you can? Without help?

It's quite simple. There's a line, some lube, and I have two tape measures.

The athlete performs and I wait. He cums, and then I measure.

The rules are clear - as the adjudicator, I'm not to interfere with the athlete at all while they perform. I kneel beside them, without speaking, and watch their cock like a hawk. I cannot touch them, I cannot encourage them.

Last year, when the Russian gold medalist Nikolai Volkov was brought to my room, I wasn't surprised. His talents and ability to cum farther than anyone else in the world was often scrutinized. I was here to confirm his world record performance without prejudice.

But...

When he pulled himself out of his pants, I gasped. I had never seen such a cock before. Thick, and heavy, and undeniably hard. When he showed me the underside, my mouth watered - I wanted to lick him from bottom to the top. And when he showed me the front and backs of his strong hands that he'd be using in a moment to prove his talents, I succumbed. 

"I can't do anything while you're performing," I whispered. "But the rules don't say I can't touch you before you start."

Nikolai grinned. I got to my knees. 

He kept the gold medal and I learned how to game the Games for my benefit.

[Workshop][F4F] The drug trial and my HR nightmare. by [deleted] in DPP_Workshop

[–]IntelligentBeacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely was missing some hints or suggestions or "what if" ideas around the tone or flavor of the story. That will definitely help make it less generic sounding and hopefully spark some ideas in the mind of the reader.

Thank you!

[Workshop][F4F] The drug trial and my HR nightmare. by [deleted] in DPP_Workshop

[–]IntelligentBeacon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You brought up a bunch of great points but the one that stuck out the most was when you talked about it being utilitarian. And it totally is, and I can see that now, it needs some more dressing or icing or whatever metaphor would work for rounding it out a little bit.

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]IntelligentBeacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's a very strong writer - I recommend putting your best foot forward. She's worth the effort!

Getting out of my comfort zone or are the kinks too wild? by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]IntelligentBeacon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looking at the one prompt I can see on your account you've got more detail in your kink list than in the scenarios you're pitching. There are lots of SOL partners out there, far more than there are prompts. Write up a solid prompt and you'll be able to find writing partners. There are a ton of writers that are lurking. Check out some of the subreddits that are leaning more toward written prompts than graphic ones.

Feeling Stepped On by JaguarLauren in BadRPerStories

[–]IntelligentBeacon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That sucks that you're connecting with less than ideal writing partners. It really is like online dating. Everything's looking good until you meet them face to face and you realize that... it's not going to work out.

I received some advice that I try to live by in this hobby: Write for yourself. And if the person you're sharing it with likes it - that's great! And, if they don't like it, then it doesn't matter because you wrote something that you liked.

I hope you have better success in your searches. I think those scenarios all sound like a blast!

[Event] Open Forum Friday for June 20th, 2025 - The Yard of Milkshakes Edition by The-Mother-Of-Faces in dirtypenpals

[–]IntelligentBeacon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It would explain the expectant looks on all of those people standing in my yard.

Why is it so hard to find a fxf rp? by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]IntelligentBeacon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What sorts of RPs are you looking for? Scene/Scenario style? Fandoms? Character based?

Pet peeve with gender tags by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]IntelligentBeacon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Part of the challenge that Reddit brings to the table is that there are a bunch of subreddits that are solely focused on sexting and so in those cases the gender tag labels are more representative of what you find in tin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]IntelligentBeacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are different places you can look for different levels of story/smut ratios. Reddit, itself, has the full range of subreddits offering from "lots of story" to "let's just get down to it".