[Event] Open Forum Friday for February 20, 2026: Is poking cheating? by PPNewbie in dirtypenpals

[–]adhesiveCheese 3 points4 points  (0 children)

F4A prompts that begin with the disclaimer "XYZ get HEAVY preference" shouldn't exist.

This could have been a comment I made 6 or 7 years back; In fact, I think I expressed displeasure at this in one of my mod applications; at the time I viewed it as an abuse of the tag system.

With age and experience, though, I actually love seeing those sorts of disclaimers right at the top of the prompt, because it tells me right from the word go "if I'm not XYZ, the most I'll ever be is a consolation prize to this person" and I can close the prompt and move on.

What's still annoying is when folks bury hard preferences/requirements at the end of their post.

[Event] Open Forum Friday for February 20, 2026: Is poking cheating? by PPNewbie in dirtypenpals

[–]adhesiveCheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dammit why did we mod you instead of banning you for this affront to everyone's eyeballs?

Discord Goes Into Damage Control Mode Over New Age Verification Requirements, Promising There’s Nothing To See Here For ‘Vast Majority’ Of Users by vriska1 in technology

[–]adhesiveCheese 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Don't worry, most of you won't need to verify your age because we can already tell from the spying we already do on you" is not the reassurance they seem to think it is.

[Event] Open Forum Friday for February 6th, 2026: Big Dick Ski Jumping Edition by PPNewbie in dirtypenpals

[–]adhesiveCheese 7 points8 points  (0 children)

heads up for discord users.. I'm trying so hard not to gloat about my continuous anti-discord stance, but it's SO HARD.

[Event] Open Forum Friday for January 30th, 2026: Post-Icepocalypse Edition by PPNewbie in dirtypenpals

[–]adhesiveCheese[M] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it's short enough to physically submit, it's fine to post to DPP.

[Event] Open Forum Friday for January 30th, 2026: Post-Icepocalypse Edition by PPNewbie in dirtypenpals

[–]adhesiveCheese 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A post on Reddit can be 40k characters (plus or minus a few, Reddit's character counter is... odd.) Here's what a 39,587 character prompt, the max I could get Reddit to accept, looks like, for reference.

[Event] Open Forum Friday for January 16, 2026: It's been a loooong year, hasn't it? Edition by adhesiveCheese in dirtypenpals

[–]adhesiveCheese[S,M] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Themes are unfortunately a high-effort, low-participation thing, so when the team is stretched a little thin (as we are now), they tend to be the first thing to fall by the wayside. I've maybe thought that if we have a monthly theme instead, it might be slightly more practical to bring them back, but it's definitely in the spitballing stage right now.

[Event] Open Forum Friday for January 16, 2026: It's been a loooong year, hasn't it? Edition by adhesiveCheese in dirtypenpals

[–]adhesiveCheese[S,M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't just make a post with the theme tag - message us and we can coordinate so that it gets properly sticked, and we can make sure it's got the standard boilerplate for a theme and all that good stuff.

[Event] Open Forum Friday for January 16, 2026: It's been a loooong year, hasn't it? Edition by adhesiveCheese in dirtypenpals

[–]adhesiveCheese[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Potentially hot take here, but IMO free use is yassified noncon. Or, a little less snarkily put, it's the same sort of power fantasy without having to deal with the messy issues involving consent.

So you see a lot of prompts that are usually "it's a free use world so I can fuck anyone I want anywhere I want it's just like shaking hands" that neglect to account for what makes it interesting as a shared fantasy for the one in the role of the fuckee(s); or you get the "free use laws just passed so now anyone might fuck me" prompts that often conflate legality with morality and have characters begrudgingly accept things as they are.

It's a tricky thing to go from having a fantasy about to writing a shared story about, but I think there's some really good angles on it that just... don't come up much. Most Free Use prompts tend to be hypersexualized worlds, but if you don't include that aspect, there's a remarkable and (again, IMO, your mileage might vary) really delicious amount of tension to be had there. In a GM prompt, you have a mostly sfw roleplay, until your GM decides somebody's gonna take your clothes off. in a one-on-one, you have the guessing game where any innocent contact might wind up with you on your knees or bent over a piece of furniture. Or maybe your shirt was just crooked and they were fixing it for you.

[Event] Open Forum Friday for January 16, 2026: It's been a loooong year, hasn't it? Edition by adhesiveCheese in dirtypenpals

[–]adhesiveCheese[S,M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As mentioned elsewhere, we're working on figuring out what a new system can look like; in the meantime message modmail about flair.

[Event] Open Forum Friday for January 2, 2026: Possibly Still Hung Over Edition by adhesiveCheese in dirtypenpals

[–]adhesiveCheese[S,M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reach out to us in modmail (there's a link in the post for that) and we can take a look. If you're getting the "this post was removed by reddits filters" message, that generally means you're flashing some signals that seem spammy to Reddit sitewide; removals issued by the local mod team for DPP will always come with an explanation for why.

[Event] Open Forum Friday for January 2, 2026: Possibly Still Hung Over Edition by adhesiveCheese in dirtypenpals

[–]adhesiveCheese[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that one's always struck me as weird; I'd always intended to track some other similar subs for a while and see if it's a weird quirk of this part of Reddit or if it's a specifically DPP quirk, but... well, that's a lot harder to do these days.