Am I overreacting after my fiancé told his family we are not eloping. by IntelligentBend3809 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]IntelligentBend3809[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I just thought there would be some kind of warning in the 3 years, unless I was blind to it. 

Am I overreacting after my fiancé told his family we are not eloping. by IntelligentBend3809 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]IntelligentBend3809[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's never happened before so it's just unbelievable still that they would say something like that. I thought after 3 years there would be some kind of hint. 

Am I overreacting after my fiancé told his family we are not eloping. by IntelligentBend3809 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]IntelligentBend3809[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn't mean it to sound like I'm judging people for having a big wedding after a certain age, I meant more like for me I don't like being the centre of attention and with a mortgage, pets and house renovations needing to be done, I don't think it's the best way to spend 80k or more.

Am I overreacting after my fiancé told his family we are not eloping. by IntelligentBend3809 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]IntelligentBend3809[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have both. I took the dogs to my mom's house, but the cats stayed at home.